Glass Owl
Using sweet_intuition's "Go Get 'em Tiger" spread as a starting point, I came up with the following spread for a situation where I needed to figure out the best way to approach a friend (sometimes foe ) regarding a misunderstanding.
Approaching The Unapproachable Person Spread (10) by Glass Owl
** **10 ****
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8 *** *****9
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6 ******** 7
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4 ****** **5
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2*** 01** *3
1. The present situation with this other person
2. What you think of him/her currently
3. What he/she thinks about you currently
4. What you expect from him/her currently (hopes or fears)
5. What he/she expects from you currently (hopes or fears)
6. What is the best way to approach him/her at this time?
7. What should I know about him/her when speaking with this person?
8. What can I do at this time that would help in communicating with him/her? (This would make a good impression/improve the relationship.)
9. What is the worst thing I can do at this time? (This would make a bad impression, negatively affect the relationship.)
10. Future outlook
Approaching The Unapproachable Person Spread (10) by Glass Owl
** **10 ****
***********
8 *** *****9
***********
6 ******** 7
***********
4 ****** **5
***********
2*** 01** *3
1. The present situation with this other person
2. What you think of him/her currently
3. What he/she thinks about you currently
4. What you expect from him/her currently (hopes or fears)
5. What he/she expects from you currently (hopes or fears)
6. What is the best way to approach him/her at this time?
7. What should I know about him/her when speaking with this person?
8. What can I do at this time that would help in communicating with him/her? (This would make a good impression/improve the relationship.)
9. What is the worst thing I can do at this time? (This would make a bad impression, negatively affect the relationship.)
10. Future outlook