DragonFae
Yes you explain quite nicely...BUT...sometimes a shock or the knowledge of something that we must face..whether we want to or not...that is the role of Gawtcha....to make us "look" even when we do not want to see....
I agree it is not pleasant...no one likes to hurt....but then again hurting is part of life....where there is great joy there is the very real possibility of great sorrow.
As in the example of the boyfriend cheating....it is MOST upsetting but then again hiding from it and being fooled by it does not take away the eventual pain...and delaying "seeing it" has its own level of pain also...
I believe that every ending is a new beginning and sometimes Gawtcha is the one who gives us the chance for a new beginning...
I agree it is not pleasant...no one likes to hurt....but then again hurting is part of life....where there is great joy there is the very real possibility of great sorrow.
As in the example of the boyfriend cheating....it is MOST upsetting but then again hiding from it and being fooled by it does not take away the eventual pain...and delaying "seeing it" has its own level of pain also...
I believe that every ending is a new beginning and sometimes Gawtcha is the one who gives us the chance for a new beginning...