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I've had this come up in situations when the person couldn't have what they wanted. The "oppression" isn't necessarily that they have any heavy burden to carry except the burden of wanting something badly that they can't have. So it makes perfect sense to me in the context of someone who got left behind in a relationship; they didn't want it to end. With the positive cards around especially, this person still has all the positive loving feelings they had while in the relationship, except now they can't express them. They are burdened/oppressed/restricted by the ending of the relationship which they had no control over.