New "passed-over ones" reading thread! :D

[bluefairy]

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

Ok, here we go for Uncle Donato:

Q: Is Donato here?

A: YES

I AM LIKE A GHOST

Q: Why have you been visiting "Bluefairy"?

A: I WANT HER UNDERSTANDING AND FORGIVENESS

I AM SO SORRY

Q: That is so sad! Is there anything more you want to tell her?

A: ONLY THAT I HAVE CHANGED AND FOR THE BETTER

I HAVE LITTLE FAITH BUT MUST LEARN TO HAVE MORE

(I feel something negative about this one that hasn't come across from any other one that I have contacted so far.)

Q: Are you learning now?

A: YES HARD LESSON

I HAVE SEEN ALL OF IT

IT DOES HAVE MEANING

I AM SORRY TO HAVE FRIGHTENED YOU LITTLE ONE NO LONGER SO LITTLE

I KEEP LEARNING

GOODBYE

So far, this is the only one that scared me a little. I do hope that he won't continue to haunt you now - hopefully this was of some help to you both!

I thank you for the reading but somehow it seems like there is so much we haven't touched ...does the ghost thing mean he hasn't crossed does he need me to help him? wierd thing his i never had a grude against him at all.he was more of a helper in my dreams etc, i was scared but beacuse he never spoke to me before and when he did he told me he was happy and to let him go.I can say that after he died his wife became more involed in the church etc he was never big on that. He was a drinker but a happy one i never saw he as bad.... i am sorry bri if he scared you but that doesn't sound like him much he was always the life of the party!!! so to say....can it be he is not happy?

[blackroseivy]

I think that he scared you when you were little & this sorta freaked him out. I mean, when he appeared in your dreams etc. I think that he just meant that he felt bad that that happened.

You say that he "wasn't into the church". There may have been a crisis of faith that he felt after he died that didn't manifest prior to that time, & he is still trying to work through it. Yes, he felt "depressed" - I think that he feels he missed something in his lifetime & is trying to go back over it to complete whatever it was he started & didn't complete. Does that make sense?

I think that he is around you because you are sensitive enough to detect him, so to speak. I think that perhaps he wants some kind of answer but I don't think that we can necessarily give him what he is seeking. I definitely feel that he is looking for the answer to some question that didn't get answered in his lifetime...

I'm sorry I can't be of more help! This is just what I feel coming from him. Dunno...?

[bluefairy]

THANKS BRI i am happy that he still thinks of me the same way i think of him, i guess that's what matters the most.alot happened when he died it was an accident he was working in construction and died on the job he was hit by an 18 wheeler and was crushed. this freaked us all out that's why my mom didn't let me go to the funeral because she said it didn't look like him anymore and she didn't want me to remeber him that way.but he has come to see the family in different ways to show he was around.But he comes to me more for some reason, so for this i feel better.it's been years now and i want him to know no matter what he will always be there.... thanks so much this makes me feel better somehow....
sorry for the depressing post but i just wanted to share that....

[blackroseivy]

Wow, that is VERY sad!! But I hope that that makes some sense, then, that he had some kind of crisis. I think so.

Yes, I think that he just wanted you to know that he's there. Really, knowing how he died made it make a LOT more sense to me. Thank you for sharing, I know it's probably very hard to think about...

[bluefairy]

Well it was hard time did heal some but i am glad that he is still around....thanks a bunch, i wanted to share that so maybe you would understand more as well...

[stefficus]

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

Ok, stef - here is what I get:

Q: Is "sefficus"' dad here?

YES HELLO

THAT IS NOT HER NAME BUT HELLO (I think he is laughing a little)

Q: Is there something you need her to know?

A: JUST THAT I LOVE HER AND AM PROUD OF HER

ALSO WATCH OUT FOR THE BOYFRIEND AS I ONLY WANT THE VERY BEST FOR YOU

Q: Anything specific on that?

A: YOU MET A LONG TIME AGO WHEN THIS COUNTRY WAS NEW (I'm weirdly picking up images of the War of 1812 here - even perhaps PA where a lot of the battles were fought)

HE IS A BIT CLINGING

A LOT TO WORK OUT

HE WAS A SOLDIER

MERCENARY GERMAN

(Wow this is so specific here!!)

BUT HE IS NOT ANGRY AND VIOLENT ANYMORE SO MUCH

ALSO YOUR MOTHER SAY HI

EFFORT TO STAY AROUND

I KEEP SEEING NEW THINGS

MAYBE A NEW LIFE

LOVE YOU

GOODBYE

I did these slightly out of order, I only saw after I'd started - I will do Bluefairy next, sorry about that!

Stefficus, this is a VERY interesting one!

that IS interesting. the name thing sounds like him. heh.

the boyfriend thing confuses me. he could mean my ex? i'm still waaaaay too involved in his life, and he was a soldier for a while in this life - and he could be both clingy and angry. but i do get the feeling there's some very deep karma involved, and i'm still around because i'm worried about what would happen if i weren't.

i would LOVE a new life. and him seeing new things... that's good, too. for both of us, i think.

the main thing that confuses me (besides the definite identity of the "boyfriend"... the ex and i were married shortly before he died of MS, so i'm willing to think that's who he meant) is that my mom is still very much alive and getting married next month!

thank you for the reading, any other impressions you got are welcome. i'll read for you about your houseguests as soon as i get my haindl-stix done. they're taking longer than i thought they would. and they ARE experimental, so if you'd rather have a regular tarot reading i'd be happy to do that as well.

hmmm. interesting, indeed. HMMMM. *grin* thanks again!

[blackroseivy]

Originally Posted by stefficus

that IS interesting. the name thing sounds like him. heh.

the boyfriend thing confuses me. he could mean my ex? i'm still waaaaay too involved in his life, and he was a soldier for a while in this life - and he could be both clingy and angry. but i do get the feeling there's some very deep karma involved, and i'm still around because i'm worried about what would happen if i weren't.

i would LOVE a new life. and him seeing new things... that's good, too. for both of us, i think.

the main thing that confuses me (besides the definite identity of the "boyfriend"... the ex and i were married shortly before he died of MS, so i'm willing to think that's who he meant) is that my mom is still very much alive and getting married next month!

thank you for the reading, any other impressions you got are welcome. i'll read for you about your houseguests as soon as i get my haindl-stix done. they're taking longer than i thought they would. and they ARE experimental, so if you'd rather have a regular tarot reading i'd be happy to do that as well.

hmmm. interesting, indeed. HMMMM. *grin* thanks again!

Ok, I can DEFINITELY say this: he MEANT, "say HI to Mom"!! I KNEW she was alive when he said that!! Confusing, ay??

& yes, I thought "boyfriend" ISN'T the right word, he means "HUSBAND" - but yeah, that's what he said so that's what I wrote.

OOO I LOVE experiments, so feel free to use me as a guinea-piggie here!

It's very cool though, I seem to have definitely heard from him.

[blackroseivy]

An addendum to this thread:

Interestingly, I have a friend who is an expert on the subject of the occult - demonology in particular - who is totally against any & all "Ouija"-ing, which I consider sort of too bad because I don't necessarily think that EVERYONE who uses it is going to be in danger automatically. Guess I've said this before, but it's definitely NOT something for an inexperienced person. You have to know what exactly you are doing, & even then you have to be VERY careful...

I am doing it because I felt "called" to do so. Fortunately, that friend does NOT frequent this board!

It is highly controversial, but I seem to have something of a talent, as I said - & 1 VERY strong spiritguard (like a spiritual "bodyguard") in Veronika who I know very well is with me right now!

Just thought I'd add that because I know that there are plenty of people out there who might feel not so good about this kind of communication; but so far, I haven't had any "bad vibes" come up so, so far so good, as I say.

[stefficus]

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

Ok, I can DEFINITELY say this: he MEANT, "say HI to Mom"!! I KNEW she was alive when he said that!! Confusing, ay??

& yes, I thought "boyfriend" ISN'T the right word, he means "HUSBAND" - but yeah, that's what he said so that's what I wrote.

OOO I LOVE experiments, so feel free to use me as a guinea-piggie here!

It's very cool though, I seem to have definitely heard from him.

*facepalm* of COURSE! that makes more sense with the grammar anyway! duh.

the "new life" stuff is probably mom too... makes sense. her new marriage is gonna change everything and she's already ssoooooo much better than she was for a long time because of it. whole. new. life!

he means "husband", but "boyfriend", too... it's, uh... complicated. that makes sense too, however. the whole thing about how he is. sorta comforting, actually.

very, very cool.

okay. to the stix!

[sagewriter]

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

Q: Is Glen here to speak to Amelia?

A: YES HI AMELIA

(Just a side-note - my father is the only one who calls my sister that, to me & my mother she will always be "Amy" but I don't know if you get called that! )

never amy, normally meelee

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

Q: What would you like to say to Amelia?

A: THERE WAS A FELLOW HERE TALKING ABOUT REINCARNATION

IT MAY BE THAT YOU KNEW SOMEONE WAY BACK THEN TOO

HE MAY BE THERE NOW

DON'T IGNORE HIM HE IS IMPORTANT

This made me sit up straight! Shortly after my Dad died I was down at his house (he lived with my 18 year old bro) and sleepign in his bed. I had a dream that felt amazingly real. Around that time I was having a lot of these real dreams meeting my Dad again. This one I was laying on the ground in the dream (but aware I was in my bed) when a white light engulfed me and I felt a male energy hugging me. I asked "Please may I talk to my Dad? He died in February.", the being paused then said something about people not dying, but being 'renewed'. Then my brother woke me up coming in from a night out. This dream greatly upset me. I think I believe in reincarnation, but only when the spirit has been in 'heaven' for a while. I was terrified this meant my Dad was already gone and I wouldn't be able to contact him.

I don't know who this man is though that my Dad is talking about. I think/know my fiance and me were together before, but it's not like I'd ignore him!

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

GLAD TO SEE YOU DOING SO WELL

YOU WERE ALWAYS THE SMART ONE

After a rocky year I have a flat with my fiance and am starting a teaching assistant course with a placement at a local primary school, and am hoping to have a part-time job soon. He knew how hard it was for me before that (I lived with him/my mum/my step-dad, swapping between them all, for 6 months when I was flat hunting and was 4 hours away from my fiance).
Hehe! Well, I always thought I was smarter than my brother I've already done my degree, and am doing a teaching assistant course before doing my teacher training. My brother has finished college and isn't going to university.

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

TELL JUST A LITTLE

CAN'T SAY MUCH

BUT I AM HERE

GOODBYE

My Dad was never long on words. We never talked very much to be honest. Our relationship was something I was working on before he died. But I always knew he was there for me if I needed him. It's lovely to know that he still is.

Originally Posted by blackroseivy

This was short but I think an interesting one too. Let me know what you think. I have really 0 clue what is going on here usually!

It is interesting, and has left me with more questions, hehe! Do I take it from your little wink that you have an idea about what he's on about? Do share

Thank you so much for this reading, it was very interesting and has really cheered me up. I will be able to do your Faeries Oracle reading this weekend and will post it when I get onto the computer