I think compassionate is a good word in this situation, and even further, acceptance...acceptance of the differences of the other and of the need to meld those differences with his own ideas/ideals, patience to do so, and then, again, to accept the union of what comes out of the merging of those ideas or beliefs.
For instance, the person you are asking about accepts your differing cultural or religious beliefs, and then, maybe even comes to the realization of an even-better belief which merges those seemingly disparate ideas together.
...Like mixing together eggs, sugar, butter and flour, waiting for them to bake together, and coming out with a pretty decent cake! (Unless you're me, and the thing falls in the middle...but not for lack of trying, anyway!)
Edited to add:
p.s. Since it is a trump card, my feeling is that it appears because the seeker needs to embrace the lesson of Temperance in the question he has asked about in order to move forward in the situation. So, he needs to feel this acceptance and patience with the person or situation...
I never bend, fold, or mutilate. Unless I'm in a hurry.
Last edited by starrystarrynight; 09-09-2008 at 03:53.