Dolphin_Dreamer
I tried the mind reader posted here http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=102725&page=1&pp=10 for a relationship between X and Y, Y being the guy in question. I’m not sure if I got it right, nor could I get a definite answer out of it… any opinions welcome.
I used the Aquarian deck with reversals. And altho using elaboration cards helped in some ways. I still didn't feel definite about it.
1*2*3
4*5*6
1) Their last conscious thought about you – Knight of Cups – He is questioning whether or not he should/can take a chance or discussing this with friends. He has given hints in the past (but isn’t wholly blunt about them) and it’s hard to tell if he’s being respectful, shy or what.
2) Their last subconscious thought about you – The Chariot – He wants to resolve this, but is still cut on what direction to take. At this time he has the perserverance, focus and stamina to go for what he wants. In his mind he is successful, so maybe in his mind he thinks he doesn’t have to do anything, he has done it already or has done enough (the idea of “she should know” comes to mind here). I also drew the hierophant for elaboration. I think with the Chariot it is saying he is also trying to be conventional or acceptable in respect to his upbringing so this is also interfering.
3) Last considered action toward you because of these thoughts – 2 of Swords – He’s still not sure what to do. This could be due to other problems that still remain, his fears of getting into another relationship or that he already has been ‘allowed’ into her life and he messed that up.
4) Their last conscious feeling toward you – King of Swords – I don’t think he wants to lose her and is ready to do what it takes to keep her or keep her interested. This card is about intuitively taking control, tempered by intellect and emotional experience. The elaboration card was the 10 of Swords (Reversed) which I think means he feels that losses are in the past and things are improving.
5) Their last subconscious feeling toward you – Queen of Pentacles – I either take this as the influence of a friend, the friend being the catalyst to these things in him. The description of the Queen fits the female friend, how she is and also that she does want to see him with this person. She wants him to be devoted to the other girl. In her words ‘you are perfect for each other!’ , she also is advising him to be clear(er) about what he wants etc. The elaboration card here is the King of Pentacles, which is the other person who is in the same mind as the woman. Both are giving him advice.
6) Last considered action toward you because of these feelings – 3 of Rods – he is still considering what he wants. He’s being offered help. Elaboration card was the King of Cups. This could be a 3rd catalyst, at any rate he is considering or is more emotionally stable to decide now…
I used the Aquarian deck with reversals. And altho using elaboration cards helped in some ways. I still didn't feel definite about it.
1*2*3
4*5*6
1) Their last conscious thought about you – Knight of Cups – He is questioning whether or not he should/can take a chance or discussing this with friends. He has given hints in the past (but isn’t wholly blunt about them) and it’s hard to tell if he’s being respectful, shy or what.
2) Their last subconscious thought about you – The Chariot – He wants to resolve this, but is still cut on what direction to take. At this time he has the perserverance, focus and stamina to go for what he wants. In his mind he is successful, so maybe in his mind he thinks he doesn’t have to do anything, he has done it already or has done enough (the idea of “she should know” comes to mind here). I also drew the hierophant for elaboration. I think with the Chariot it is saying he is also trying to be conventional or acceptable in respect to his upbringing so this is also interfering.
3) Last considered action toward you because of these thoughts – 2 of Swords – He’s still not sure what to do. This could be due to other problems that still remain, his fears of getting into another relationship or that he already has been ‘allowed’ into her life and he messed that up.
4) Their last conscious feeling toward you – King of Swords – I don’t think he wants to lose her and is ready to do what it takes to keep her or keep her interested. This card is about intuitively taking control, tempered by intellect and emotional experience. The elaboration card was the 10 of Swords (Reversed) which I think means he feels that losses are in the past and things are improving.
5) Their last subconscious feeling toward you – Queen of Pentacles – I either take this as the influence of a friend, the friend being the catalyst to these things in him. The description of the Queen fits the female friend, how she is and also that she does want to see him with this person. She wants him to be devoted to the other girl. In her words ‘you are perfect for each other!’ , she also is advising him to be clear(er) about what he wants etc. The elaboration card here is the King of Pentacles, which is the other person who is in the same mind as the woman. Both are giving him advice.
6) Last considered action toward you because of these feelings – 3 of Rods – he is still considering what he wants. He’s being offered help. Elaboration card was the King of Cups. This could be a 3rd catalyst, at any rate he is considering or is more emotionally stable to decide now…