Originally Posted by olivia1
Thanks but Im sorry, I dont follow. will you please elaborate? I do want to understand because what you say is interesting but unfortunately I do not follow. are you saying that there is a distortion of reality? if so is it because of misunderstanding? Or are you saying Im waiting for a lover from the past? Or are you saying I fear waiting (from his point of view)?
I just gave you some interpritations to this card is very useful to the 7 of cups. Due to the rules of this thread and forum. Different variations.
As to your question about HIS feelings. It is belongs to the first sentence of my post. - DISTRACTION, AND DISTRACTION OF REALITY.
It means that his feelings are closed to you now, situation with his inner life is not clear. He has not got any firm opinion about you and his feelings to you. May be stable relationships are not in his plan yet, may be he think about any other things. He is looking at you from aside in order to understand who are you, and what are you. You can not understand his feelings now, he is closed to you.
If he chose not you but some one else this card does not mean that it is forever, he will come back to your relationships again later.
As to what will happen the next we should see the full spread and 7 of cups is not stable one, it needs clarify cards.
But for stable relationships, if you separated because of betrayal, this card has very clear meaning, that your OLD friend and OLD love can come back to you and you will not be able stand not to forgive him all his sins. You accept his back. Because woman is very weak under this card, she has very LOW level of self-rating and self-esteem.
Also if you lost something you will find this thing very soon. For example you left your ring the place you do not know. In some time you will find it. it will not be lost forever.