Annia
I guess us girls all have the same problem. While we think that *now* might just be the right moment to get married, guys need about 56 hints before they realise that *now* actually is the right moment to get married 
So my partner and I have talked about marriage and he knows I want to take the final step. He always says that he's not against marriage but somehow doesn't get his act together.
I commented another "waiting for the ring" thread earlier and thought this might just be the right spread for me too.
I use the Robin Wood Tarot
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-5--3-4--6
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1. What do I need to know concerning his view on their relationship? The Sun
He sees our relationship as a success and has no second guesses about it.
2. What do I need to know concerning his view on getting engaged in the near future?
9 of cups
I’m not sure, either it’s his wishes fulfilled, or he sees it as my biggest wish (the 9 of cups being my emotions, my wishes), yet he stands aside .
3. What may increase the probability of him proposing to me in the near future?
Wheel of fortune
If I just let things happen by themselves, no pushing on my part. Life should surprise me, I should let go of the belief that I need to control every situation.
4. What may decrease the probability him proposing to me in the near future?
Temperance
If I’m not open for compromises, if I’m not patient.
5. What should I do while I am waiting? (advice)
Judgement
This was a hard one for me. In the Robin Wood Tarot, a naked girl is stepping through the flames of a phoenix, she’s jubilating, full of energy and reborn.
In the end, I thought it might mean that I should live life at it’s fullest while waiting, not be sad because he hasn’t asked me yet. And I shouldn’t be scared, in the end, all will be well.
6. What should I NOT do while I am waiting? (advice)
Death
I should not push the change myself.
So my partner and I have talked about marriage and he knows I want to take the final step. He always says that he's not against marriage but somehow doesn't get his act together.
I commented another "waiting for the ring" thread earlier and thought this might just be the right spread for me too.
I use the Robin Wood Tarot
-----1----
-5--3-4--6
-----2---
1. What do I need to know concerning his view on their relationship? The Sun
He sees our relationship as a success and has no second guesses about it.
2. What do I need to know concerning his view on getting engaged in the near future?
9 of cups
I’m not sure, either it’s his wishes fulfilled, or he sees it as my biggest wish (the 9 of cups being my emotions, my wishes), yet he stands aside .
3. What may increase the probability of him proposing to me in the near future?
Wheel of fortune
If I just let things happen by themselves, no pushing on my part. Life should surprise me, I should let go of the belief that I need to control every situation.
4. What may decrease the probability him proposing to me in the near future?
Temperance
If I’m not open for compromises, if I’m not patient.
5. What should I do while I am waiting? (advice)
Judgement
This was a hard one for me. In the Robin Wood Tarot, a naked girl is stepping through the flames of a phoenix, she’s jubilating, full of energy and reborn.
In the end, I thought it might mean that I should live life at it’s fullest while waiting, not be sad because he hasn’t asked me yet. And I shouldn’t be scared, in the end, all will be well.
6. What should I NOT do while I am waiting? (advice)
Death
I should not push the change myself.
