gorgeousbutterfly said:
ok well then what does it mean when you go back to a relationship with these aspects ??
It means that when Venus goes Direct the relationship is gonna start unraveling again.
Venus Rx and Mars are gonna be passionate... so, they're feeling the urge to recapture what they once had.
The Moon is changeable tho... and, being in close aspect, gives them the urge to give it one more emotional shot. But, again, once it moves on, the relationship will change. The Moon can never be relied upon for any kind of permanency.
Jupiter is good and bad news. While considered the Great Benefic, it also leads to excess that is not healthy... excessively great sex, excessively great romance, excessively great good times. What happens is that 'life' just isn't built that way. A relationship built on excess, especially of stuff that feels great to us, actually weakens us, dissipates our ability to handle the crap that comes along in life and the life of a relationship.
That's why Saturn, well-placed, works for a relationship... it gives the kind of soberness the couple need to get thru the rough times without throwing the baby out with the bathwater... as Jupiter is wont to do, being that he rules Sagittarius... planet of 'the grass is greener on the other side'.
In any case, these aspects are transient... when they move on, the relationship will experience that effect.
p.s. Retrogrades always mean 'try, try again'.