Venusian
That is the question.
Okay I admit, I've had a couple (or few) glasses of red wine so perhaps I'm contemplating a little too much.
However, my question is still a very valid one. One in which I am curious about the (potential) responses from seasoned Astrologers here on the board.
Before I dive into it I will preface my question by giving a little bit of background on my experiences in the science of Astrology.
I was introduced to Astrology by my grandmother at a very young age. She cast charts by hand, with a compass, pencil and an acute knowledge of mathematics. When I was born she had my chart read by another professional who apparently made some revelations about my chart to my grandmother. Not one day did my grandmother ever mention to me that she had my chart read by anyone until one day when I was in my 30s and we were in the midst of an emotional discussion. She blurted out, "You were supposed to be famous!", in a tone that kind of hinted at her disappointment in how my life had actually turned out.
By this point I myself had already been studying Astrology for more than 20 years, but only seriously for about 10. While I had never looked at my chart and saw any kind of "celebrity" or "recognition", at least two other Astrologers had and they mentioned it to me, though they downplayed it. Within the past couple of years another person mentioned it to me (a stranger with whom I quickly changed the subject), and that time I was the one who downplayed it because I didn't want to hear about something that was only a reminder of my failure. And perhaps it was the they way she said it as well, much the same way that my grandmother presented it, "You were SUPPOSED TO BE famous". Like, literally almost the exact same quote as ol' bitter Nana.
Anywho, my question is this:
As an Astrologer, have you ever seen perhaps seen the strong signatures of something in an individual's natal, and perhaps made a conscious decision to not mention it for fear that the querent may feel like a failure when/if it doesn't manifest in their life?
In my case, looking back, I think that I would have rather not been told. Though I recognize that Astrologers waited until they felt I may have been mature or spiritual enough to handle and process such information in a healthy way, years later as I look back I still feel that it would be easier on my psyche now if I didn't know that I was "supposed to be" successful and just dropped the ball somehow along the way in life. Or even yet, on my 99th birthday, all of a sudden I will get recognition for all my life's hard work. LOL Like seriously, some things you would just rather not even know.
So I suppose my question would really only applies to Astrologers who have years of experience in Astrology rather than those who may not have experience but rather have strong opinions.
As an Astrologer, what are your experiences with this kind of scenario? To tell, or not to tell? How do you feel about this?
Thx
StarSeer
Okay I admit, I've had a couple (or few) glasses of red wine so perhaps I'm contemplating a little too much.
However, my question is still a very valid one. One in which I am curious about the (potential) responses from seasoned Astrologers here on the board.
Before I dive into it I will preface my question by giving a little bit of background on my experiences in the science of Astrology.
I was introduced to Astrology by my grandmother at a very young age. She cast charts by hand, with a compass, pencil and an acute knowledge of mathematics. When I was born she had my chart read by another professional who apparently made some revelations about my chart to my grandmother. Not one day did my grandmother ever mention to me that she had my chart read by anyone until one day when I was in my 30s and we were in the midst of an emotional discussion. She blurted out, "You were supposed to be famous!", in a tone that kind of hinted at her disappointment in how my life had actually turned out.
By this point I myself had already been studying Astrology for more than 20 years, but only seriously for about 10. While I had never looked at my chart and saw any kind of "celebrity" or "recognition", at least two other Astrologers had and they mentioned it to me, though they downplayed it. Within the past couple of years another person mentioned it to me (a stranger with whom I quickly changed the subject), and that time I was the one who downplayed it because I didn't want to hear about something that was only a reminder of my failure. And perhaps it was the they way she said it as well, much the same way that my grandmother presented it, "You were SUPPOSED TO BE famous". Like, literally almost the exact same quote as ol' bitter Nana.
Anywho, my question is this:
As an Astrologer, have you ever seen perhaps seen the strong signatures of something in an individual's natal, and perhaps made a conscious decision to not mention it for fear that the querent may feel like a failure when/if it doesn't manifest in their life?
In my case, looking back, I think that I would have rather not been told. Though I recognize that Astrologers waited until they felt I may have been mature or spiritual enough to handle and process such information in a healthy way, years later as I look back I still feel that it would be easier on my psyche now if I didn't know that I was "supposed to be" successful and just dropped the ball somehow along the way in life. Or even yet, on my 99th birthday, all of a sudden I will get recognition for all my life's hard work. LOL Like seriously, some things you would just rather not even know.
So I suppose my question would really only applies to Astrologers who have years of experience in Astrology rather than those who may not have experience but rather have strong opinions.
As an Astrologer, what are your experiences with this kind of scenario? To tell, or not to tell? How do you feel about this?
Thx
StarSeer