Originally Posted by novenovembre
Can you explain what you mean ? Starrynight said he may want a sexual relationship, you say she lacks femininity.....surrounding cards aside, I find it hard to put the 2 together....maybe finding her " disturbingly attactive" (or attractive but somehow disturbing) puts them together, which is what I meant.....
What I meant, he may see her as exhibiting some masculine traits - e.g. in her behaviour and character (active rather than passive, intellectual rather than intuitive, dominant rather than submissive, etc.). There's no reason whatsoever why this should preclude sexual attraction. And even if it's taken physically (e.g. she's boyish in appearance) - maybe this is what turns him on. To each his own, like I said.
Here's a thread on HP reversed, you will find many interesting ideas there, perhaps they will fit the situation better: http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?t=57386