I don't know, a King is much different than a Knight of Wands. I don't think the King of Wands would be a player or a love 'em and leave 'em type at all.
I would see the 9 Cups and King Wands as a passion feast, that they have a lot to share and are generous, hot and steamy, know what they want and go after it and will be very persuasive about it, won't let obstacles deter them.
If you can't be a good example -
- then you will just have to be a horrible warning