Hi Aters
How would you see the Emperor when describing the type of relationship that you are aiming for? Other threads mostly talk about the Emperor as a person, rather than the relationship itself (and often depicts the man).
More precisely, I asked which type of relationship would suit me and I got the Emperor upright (with other conservative cards such as hierophant and 4 of pentacles for which partner would be a good fit for me).
Does the Emperor means that I need a relationship in which there is structure and a sens of direction? And I am not looking for a father-type of husband
************Two people need love in order to be together but the relationship must be based on respect too!! This is what the emperor says as a general trait for the future relationship.**********
Things must be clear from the very bigenning between you and your future partner. No doubts,no concerns,no playing.
I guess you wish to have a family,you have values,to have your own home and balance in your life and this is what u will get in the end. You need someone in whom u can put your whole trust. Hierophant partners are reliable and solid,steady,they know to apreciate a woman,they have traditions and they are respectful towards you and his parents/your parents and everyone in general. The hierophant man know how to dress,he will always make a good impression in society and he will hold your hand and make you his woman and the mother of his future children.
Normally when we fall in love we tend to fall immediately for that person and make ourselves available without thinking about the future or sometimes we think love is the only ingredient necesary so that a relationship can survive. Here its an advice from the cards to not allow your feelings to control over your actions. Dont be impulsive. Hierophant is anything but about physical love or romantic emotions. Its about allowing your connection to grow in time.
The 4 of pentacles is suggesting u should make yourself valuable and make your future partner appreciate you but for that you will have to not offer yourself right away(not only physically but also emotionally- let him boil a bit in his own sauce). Since the 4 of pents is in pair with Hierophant,it suggests you must make this man work and put effort in conquering you,allow him to court you traditionally and this way he will appreciate it more when the time will come to have you in his arms. This is about the small steps in achieving a serious relationship. This way he will hold u tight and he will not let you go never. 4 of pentacles as the 4 of wands is about stability and possesion.
When one works hard to achieve something he will appreciate thousand times more then if he got everything on the snap of his fingers.
Materially would suggest a hard working man and with the sense of responsability for the day of tomorrow,someone that would not spend money on silly things or joke about his finances.
