[Persimmon]

Originally Posted by Noni

3 of coins
Ed would try to communicate through work mates or for work in that case he will involve other people you two know mutually to communicate or reach you in social setting or work whatever is relevant


Q> What do I need to know about A coming into my thoughts recently

the devil

you may feel like you can't let go of this person even if you wanted to because you feel a strong pull towards them/a magnetic attraction

if I started becoming distant towards ed, would he continue being distant with me?

[WaterSong]

Originally Posted by Persimmon

3 cups

can A be a bit flaky at times? like they get distracted by other people or things and sometimes forget what they are supposed to do? It looks like they may have been focusing their attention elsewhere


fb: I wonder if the hierophant is showing he feels it is 'not right' to become close friends with me because he has a girlfriend



how would Ed react if I started to follow his example and I became distant with him and stopped making an effort to communicate with him?

that could be, A can be bad at keeping track of time.


King of cups : I think they would be polite, kind to you still, but reserved...they would keep their emotions in check ( next card Hierophant, again.)


Q; what can i expect next from A ?

[Noni]

@WATERSONG

Q; what can i expect next from A ?
Temperance
A balanced and moderate approach towards you

Originally Posted by Persimmon

if I started becoming distant towards ed, would he continue being distant with me?

4 of wands
Yes as this is card of stability so if he's distant now he will remain same

Q> Does A feel a similar pull since last month or so

[samantha]

Originally Posted by Noni

@WATERSONG

Q; what can i expect next from A ?
Temperance
A balanced and moderate approach towards you


4 of wands
Yes as this is card of stability so if he's distant now he will remain same

Q> Does A feel a similar pull since last month or so

7 of Cups
Im going with no - this is wishful thinking OR the question is moot/a presumption.

QU: In relation to TB I have two choices - watch and wait OR be more pro active. Which would be more helpful to me ?

[WaterSong]

Originally Posted by Noni

@WATERSONG

Q; what can i expect next from A ?
Temperance
A balanced and moderate approach towards you


4 of wands
Yes as this is card of stability so if he's distant now he will remain same

Q> Does A feel a similar pull since last month or so

King of swords( 2 of cups) : I do think A is trying to be clear about what he feels for you, and intending to be fair and honest. Yes he does, but it is starting to reflect about his feelings for you.


Q: How does A feel about our relationship

[WaterSong]

Originally Posted by samantha

7 of Cups
Im going with no - this is wishful thinking OR the question is moot/a presumption.

QU: In relation to TB I have two choices - watch and wait OR be more pro active. Which would be more helpful to me ?

hello Sam

2 of swords : I think it would be best you watch and wait. The opposite would cause unnecessary conflict ( 5 of wands )

my Q above

[samantha]

Originally Posted by WaterSong

King of swords( 2 of cups) : I do think A is trying to be clear about what he feels for you, and intending to be fair and honest. Yes he does, but it is starting to reflect about his feelings for you.


Q: How does A feel about our relationship

7 of Coins
A wants to make sure that the *timing* is right here - base was Sun RX so A is not confident that now is the right time for you both to change roles within the relationship ; I guess A has thought about moving things along but doesn't want to do so prematurely (The Sun has to be optimum for harvest to be at its best etc etc)

QU: (Thanks WS ) *If* I wait , what might I get from this connection futher down the line ?

[WaterSong]

Originally Posted by samantha

7 of Coins
A wants to make sure that the *timing* is right here - base was Sun RX so A is not confident that now is the right time for you both to change roles within the relationship ; I guess A has thought about moving things along but doesn't want to do so prematurely (The Sun has to be optimum for harvest to be at its best etc etc)

QU: (Thanks WS ) *If* I wait , what might I get from this connection futher down the line ?

that is actually very accurate and a fair description of his personality Sam.Great reading.


10 of cups : I do see here that if you wait, down the line there will be a great connection possible with this person, either if it is a friendship or romantic.
It would allow you to build a better rapport either way .

Q: what is A waiting for for him to decide is the *right timing * ? ( or better phrased...what does he need to feel it is the right time . )

[samantha]

Originally Posted by WaterSong

that is actually very accurate and a fair description of his personality Sam.Great reading.


10 of cups : I do see here that is you wait, down the line there will be a great connection possible with this person, either if it is a friendship or romantic.
It would allow you to build a better rapport either way .

Q: what is A waiting for for him to decide is the *right timing * ? ( or better phrased...what does he need to feel it is the right time . )

3 of Cups
This seems to be related to other relationships/connections that he has - I seem to remember you said (or I picked up on and you verified) that his ex still has an influence on him in some ways. It could be that (I sometimes see this card as the *other* person in rel. readings) ...I don't think this is lovey dovey so much as his wanting all of you to get on ....for everything (in his mind ....it may already be so in reality ?) to be *entente cordiale* ....if this is off base then it concerns his social circle (is this integrating you into a group who formally knew the ex ?) ; he wants everyone to be happy .......(which is a big goal ....)

QU: How would TB feel about my popping in from time to time ?

[WaterSong]

Originally Posted by samantha

3 of Cups
This seems to be related to other relationships/connections that he has - I seem to remember you said (or I picked up on and you verified) that his ex still has an influence on him in some ways. It could be that (I sometimes see this card as the *other* person in rel. readings) ...I don't think this is lovey dovey so much as his wanting all of you to get on ....for everything (in his mind ....it may already be so in reality ?) to be *entente cordiale* ....if this is off base then it concerns his social circle (is this integrating you into a group who formally knew the ex ?) ; he wants everyone to be happy .......(which is a big goal ....)

QU: How would TB feel about my popping in from time to time ?

I suspected that Sam,yes.
I have extended my hand to the ex, we are sort in friendly terms.

Judgment : I often see in this card the need to communicate something, the angel's trumpet always gets my attention...I think TB would feel the need to communicate with you but also I think they would feel the *call*, the pull they feel for you.They could not ignore it easily.

Q: What would be the best approach I could have toward moving things forward with A...should I say something , as in being proactive, or should I wait ?( I stole your question Sam)