Shall we Dance

Ok, here is another relationship spread..... I guess it shows I'm trying to figure out all the aspects of my relationships now.... But here it is, and hopefully you will find it useful. As for the name..... I can't find anything suitable.... if you have any suggestions, spit it out please.

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5..............6
7..............8
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1 - represents the querent
2 - represents the querent's partner
3 - their relationship mentally/spiritually
4 - their relationship sexually
5 - what is hidden (on the querent's side, the querent maybe knows that it is there, but will not express it openly)
6 - what is hidden (on the partner's side)
7 - the outcome for querent
8 - the outcome for partner
9 - overall outcome

Enjoy!

Love,
Katja

i like it! and ill try it as soon as i get home from class today

For a name ... "Shall we Dance" ?? What with the two hidden sides and all.

What if it's not a sexual relationship? I guess this isn't for that?

DragonLover, let me know if it's ok, ok?

augursWell, I like your suggestion..... Shall we dance spread.... Great! I don't know, I guess you can "skip" this card if it's not sexual... though I used it in a non sexual relationship, it said that there is a wish for something like that....

there was maybe one card of mine that i couldnt really figure out, what the querent (myself) is hiding, and i got the nine of cups. im not sure how to interpret it in that position.

over all i really liked the spread, and found it to open my eyes quite a bit. I found it to be one of the better relationship spreads ive used.

i like the sound of this one and im gonna try it out soon