Skydancer said:
Elven - great idea!
I have a 'tarot' necklace that I wear when out sometimes but ya know, it hadn't occured to me to wear it for when I'm doing readings here at home.
I need to do something to concentrate my thoughts too. Help me find words to speak aloud - speaking to myself inside my head is easy!! TOO easy - I forget to speak out loud for practice.
Take care ~
*S*
Hi Skydancer *waves madly*, Hi All,
I just needed to say that I was terribly shy when I first started reading and especially in front of people I knew. Even the slightest form of aquaintence to someone used to make me nearly throw up if they asked for a reading. I wasn't confident and I couldn't speak. I would sit and baulk at everything I was about to say. The gaps of silence where so uncomfortable for myself and for the sitter. It was so horrible, I wanted to tell them to go home and not bother with me, and see someone else.
This was when I decided to read wearing the necklaces. Then I chose to wear a blue dress to read in as well. With the associations of colour and the stones, I felt stronger, and so I would hold my necklace and just chat away. The difference was amazing! I had a feeling of presence, and the blues suited me. I looked and felt happier, very confident!
I didnt need to wear the blue coloured clothing after a while and switched to very bright oranges, red, pinks and yellows. Now it never matters, I wear what ever I want. I still wore my necklaces though, and I still have them today. When I see them it reminds me of that time and I think how far I have come since then.
Just thought I'd share.
Blessings
Elven x