I don't see the Tower as a bad card. I see it as meaning any kind of great big surprise, good or bad, that's something you didn't really foresee in your wildest imagination. Maybe it means the father will come back. Maybe the baby will be the opposite sex of what she thinks it's going to be. Maybe she's carrying twins and the ultrasound didn't show it. It could be anything. Maybe the baby will be the millionth baby born at that hospital and they'll give her all her baby supplies for the first year of baby's life. You never know. The Tower isn't a bad omen, although it sometimes could be. I just don't automatically jump to that conclusion.
And time frames aren't always immediate either. Maybe this is a long range thing with the Tower and it means this baby will be destined to discover the cure for cancer or AIDS or will be the first woman president, or will discover the "fountain of youth".
Intuition is not an inferior form of mind--it is, in fact, superior to ordinary intellect, more like a "super-mind" into which you plug during extra-ordinary states of consciousness. ~Vicki Noble (creator of Motherpeace deck)