Originally Posted by BrightEye
i'm the mysterious friend and want to join in the discussion. can someone enlighten me on where saturn comes in and what moon in sagittarius means?
and why does this happen to two people who have never met each other in person?
How wonderful you and star-lover have such a connection!
Not totally understanding your question regarding Saturn, Saturn represents structure. On the literal level it rules our skeletal system. On a psychological level it traces the structure of our life, the skeleton of our life pattern as it has formed way back to early experiences reflecting parental as well as social attitudes and beliefs we adoped as children.
On the good side, Saturn provides us with essential boundaries between ourselves and our environment...without it we would probably be overwhemed with the constant demands of others and also our demands with others.
On the other side the demands of others can be experienced by us as restrictions, outside authorities, the 'you will not', 'you cannot' that frustrates and pulls us down. It is where we can feel within ourselves the feeling of inadequacy, of being envious of others and wanting to cut them down to size. But whatever we cling to, we lose, become undone...we shut down, we suffer many deaths, big and small, until we being the grinding work, the tough and hard work of acknowledging the shadows within ourselves.
When we truly discover within our own blind spots, we also discover there gifts and these gifts truly earned, are ours to keep.
Saturn calls for honest to goodness soul-searching, to be honest and truthful with ourselves...if not...we will suffer its scythe....forcing us to bend our Saturn-ruled knees!
Moon in Sagittarius, we have water and fire and these two can work against each other which may be felt emotionally and with our relationships with others.
Moon in Sagittarius desires more than anything to experience personal freedom and independence, being able to come and go as they please. Look to see where your Saturn sits, Sagittarius loves to move quickly, Saturn forces us to work slowly...it tolerates no skimping!
People with Moon in Sag, have what we call 'clear vision', an ability to see into the heart of a problem when others only see its confusion. You can definitely motivate and encourage others and you may find yourself always helping others in some way. THey are natural teachers but they are a bit on the shy side. When someone really gets to know them though, they discover just how much a Moon in Sag really knows!
Some with Moon in Sag. are so sensitive they have a tendency to over-react to others who seem controlling and putting them down in some way. (Saturn has a way of being critical and harsh)
But Moon in Sag. can have quite a temper and a good flap of the tongue when they get angry!!
Activity of any kind is good for these people, it brings out their competitive spirit..their sense of adventure. They prefer being with others other than out on their own. They can get all wrapped up in 'saving people, animals, etc.', so much so their family life has been known to suffer. They are always on the go, expanding their horizons, physically, mentally and spiritually.
I wonder what others can add here?