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Woes of a cusp born..
As a cancer/leo cuspie (well leo by two hours to be exact) i'm always fascinated by how people address the cusp issue. Everyone has different theories as to the true sun sign, I feel i'm a hefty dose of both. It would hurt me to believe otherwise. It's hard to form an astrological identity when every book has you as a different sign. This can be a real advantage though- I read cancer and leo horoscopes and pick the best day/week/month (Shame on me, I know). Does anyone else have the same problem? How do you deal with it? Belinda |
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Hi Butterfly! I think you deal with it well enough! ![]() Actually I wasn't born on the cusp, but I think more or less anyone as the same problem as you have. In fact, the astrological identity is not uniquely identified by Sun Sign - you know there's plenty other aspects and positions that make us feel scattered all over the Zodicac! ![]() For example, I have always wondered if it wasn't more correct to listen to the Rising horoscope rather than the Sun Sign - surely the situation might have been closer to the birth chart, right? My problem, however, is that I have a respectable part of each element in the birth chart. Well, you'll say, you're balanced. Hell, I say, I'm not! ![]() I really get so puzzled at times!!! My Gemini streak, strong enough, is quite frequent. But as soon as I'm offended I turn into an Aries (Moon) or Scoprio (Rising) as I have Mars (gov) conjuncted with my natal Sun. My idea of love is absolute (4th house in Pisces!!!) but I'm a lone wolf, independent and really concerned with self-fulfillment and affirmation. I could go on, but that would be useless. To sum up, anyone has this problem: to deal with the different Male/Female polarity. Some do quite well, and get balanced, other (like me) are competely disproportionate and without control. As for your being a cusp, hey! It's not such a pain in the... Cusps will surely have a more dynamic and active life than mine! And, why don't you try making your own horoscope? Taking into account your Sun, Moon, Venus and all?Blessed you be by the stars!
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Hi, Butterfly! I'm on the cusp of Scorpio and Saggitarius. Mostly horoscopes put me under Scorp, but I have seen some that have me down as a Saggy. I am, however, about 90% Scorp - which is probably enough for anybody! Some situations bring out the Saggy in me - particularly as I've got my moon in Leo so there is a bit of fire in there...... I have to say I like being a cusp case - no complaints from me! |
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Jade-Yep, I've had it done. The sun changed from Cancer to Leo (00deg10')two hours before my birth. As for the other positions my moon is also in cusp (Taurus 0 deg 13'), Rising- Sag Merc- Cancer Venus- Leo Mars- Aries Jupiter- Aquarius saturn- Gemini Uranus- Libra Nept- Sag Pluto- Libra I don't mind the cusp- I think it encouraged me to explore astrology a little more, and still maintain a degree of independence. |
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I dont haunt these grounds usually, but Im a Sagi/Capi cusp (Yule child hehe) and Im definately Sagi, about 90% at least. My husband is a Leo/Virgo cusp (hows THAT for perfect date compatability lol) and he's definately Leo, tho he usually wont call himself either/or, he's both. I read bothhoroscopes as well, and I read both of his too hehe. another interesting thing, my first daughter was born December 20 (day before I turned 21, no alcohol in the hospital hehe), and my other daughter was born August 16, so my famiy is 2 Leos and 2 Sagis, come to think of it those 2 Leos may be a problem later lol
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Ooh, now that will be a lot of fun. Two leos- lot of ego for a little family. I'm lucky- my little one is a libra- she charms me to pieces, makes me her slave and still manages to make me feel grateful for letting me help her! I'll be adding a little virgo to the family later in the year, hopefully they'll get on well, but to be truthful the idea of a virgo child terrifies me!! |
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Butterfly , don't fret. My oldest child is a virgo and he is like my favorite person in the whole world! (Well , except for my other child of course!). From day one he was quiet , content , happy , rarely cried , and almost everybody likes him! I'm serious. |
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However , you really can't peg virgo the way the books do . (Nor Capricorns). Virgos are supposed to be fanatically clean , neat , organized , and critical , right? Well , I have a really good virgo friend who is the sweetest person in the world , but I've Never seen a house as in dire need of cleaning and organizing as hers! (ouch!) also I can tell her almost anything and she isn't critical! So how do you explain that! ? |
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