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I looked into Thirteen's explanations (thank you Thirteen) -and this is about family...could it be that this person still feels like I am part of his family, he still didn't give up on me in his heart (although I KNOW that he will never contact me or something like that)?
10 cups could suggest a truce, the stopping of the conflict by going your separate ways, perhaps he feels at peace because you are no longer a part of his life, he is happy not to be in any contact with you.
What you describe about your relationship would certainly fit the 10 cups Rx, disharmony, arguments, clash of interests, hurt feelings etc