One of the earliest meanings I got for the Queen Wands Rx, is because she just has to take care of everything herself... she's the one who volunteers at the soup kitchen, takes care of every little crisis everyone comes to her with, plus with her own personal stuff, her job, raising her kids, being the soccer mom and all that, she is totally burnt the candle at both ends.
Or the stress is getting to her, her reserves have run out. I'd also think that the reversed Queen is having an attack of low self esteem and jealousy, this might be the time she gets really catty and snarly and no one you want to mess with. OR that her natural good humor has gone flat, she just isn't feeling her usual sunny, bright cheerful self... and really needs a break. But mainly I would think that her spark is missing, her flame is going out.
If you can't be a good example -
- then you will just have to be a horrible warning