is there a will we be friends? spread

bladeraven

Hmm..trying to organize my thoughts and figure out how to approach this one..friend is going through a bad divorce and wants to know if she and he will be friends again...couldn't seem to figure out what would suit them..had thought of doing this

card 1=her
card 2=what she wants
card 3=reality

card 4=him
card 5=what he wants
card 6=reality

card 7=waht is the best possible outcome

have this been done before??

maybe have the cards spread like this

~~1~~4~~
~~2~~5~~
~~3~~6~~
~~~7~~~

Have card 7 in the center of the two rows to symbolize both of them at the same time??
 

Nina*

There is something like it in the 'Spread Forum Index'; Umbraes Relationship Spread. It is a brilliant spread I think and could be used for all kind of relationships. Perhaps you could use it...:

Left column
Person 1 Feels
Person 1 Needs
Person 1 Expected Outcome

Right Column
Person 2 Feels
Person 2 Needs
Person 2 Expected Outcome

Center Column
Core (what the relationship is founded on)
Needs (what the relationship needs)
What we can expect of the relationship (expectations)
The future of the relationship. (Probable reality)


xxx
Nina
 

bladeraven

heheheh thank you...I wonder if it was my subconsious pulling it up or the fact I was up at 1:00 in the morning ??
 

Nina*

Doesn't matter.... it's still a wonderful spread ;)
 
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