Sassapphras
There are people I know whom are scared to death of new things; new situations. As much as they want them, they fight so hard to keep them from their lives. And what they show on the outside, and make themselves believe, is not truly how they feel. So I designed a spread for myself that allows me to see the deeper meaning of their feelings. A way to give hope, in my eyes. However, I've also used this on "enemies" in my life, so that I know what they're up to concerning myself.
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1. How they see themselves.
2. How they think I feel about them.
3. How they feel about me.
4. The feelings of me they ignore/try to escape/repress.
5. What they hope for the future of the relationship.
6. The feelings they ignore/try to escape/repress towards their hopes of the future of the relationship.
7. What they will want to do in order to further/hinder the relationship.
8. What they will do in order to further/hinder the relationship.
9. Immediate future of the relationship.
10. Long term outcome of the relationship.
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5-7---6-8
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1. How they see themselves.
2. How they think I feel about them.
3. How they feel about me.
4. The feelings of me they ignore/try to escape/repress.
5. What they hope for the future of the relationship.
6. The feelings they ignore/try to escape/repress towards their hopes of the future of the relationship.
7. What they will want to do in order to further/hinder the relationship.
8. What they will do in order to further/hinder the relationship.
9. Immediate future of the relationship.
10. Long term outcome of the relationship.
. I don't guarantee anything, but I, myself, have used this spread and it works wonderfully for me. I hope it works out for you as well.