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Delacey  Delacey is offline
Join Date: 22 Apr 2007
Location: Alberta, Canada
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LP- I will try to explain the difference in "expect" and the "future". (As I understand it anyway).

First visualize how the grid is three rows of three accross and then the outcome card in the middle below by itself. The middle row is a meshing of the two people. So the relationship expectations in the middle is what you a couple expect to achieve from the relationship. For instance you may both be expecting long term companionship, or if things were going through a rough patch you both may be expecting pain and hurt.

The outcome card suggusts what is the most likely outcome if you continue on your path. So you could have an expecation of pain and hurt, and the outcome could suggest moving away, working at your issues or a lasting happiness. You could both expect to get married at some point in the future, but that does not mean you actually will in the future.

Does that help?
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