If it helps, thorhammer, I find 21 Ways quite preachy myself. I had a copy just long enough to read it, and figure out I didn't like her method at all.
I'll channel Umbrae for you: "Ditch the book, and just read the cards!"
We all have those days where we wonder if tarot is hooey or not. Keep a stiff upper lip, hun! I promise, it'll pass. I just got out of one of those cynical slumps myself.
As for my IDS, I'd like to say I've been busy with my RWS, but I still haven't gotten the courage up to do a larger spread -- although I've been craving one for a couple of weeks. I've been doing a little light studying, but nothing major. Bad Alamaris, bad! I did have a humorous experience with the deck, though. Over the last two days, the Emperor either fell out, leapt out, or was randomly pulled from the deck at least half a dozen times while I was aimlessly shuffling. Out of the two times I asked the deck what the Emperor was trying to tell me,
both times I got the Queen of Wands. (I'll be damned if I can figure out what they're trying to say.) But it got even more amusing when I realized that the Emperor had a lighter back than the rest of the cards, which, being well used, are a little yellowed and faded. I kept shuffling. The Emperor kept jumping out. Finally, a card landed face down, and I was a little relieved -- the back was faded and worn, with a dog-eared corner. Definitely not the Emperor.
I flipped it over... and the Emperor was staring me in the face! Exasperated, I flipped through the rest of the deck, and what do you know, there's two Emperors. One that matches the deck, and one that looks 5 years newer. I got out my spare 1971 RWS, which is basically unused, and compared the backs -- the "newer" Emperor matched it. I was quite smug in my assumption that I'd somehow stuck the new Emperor into the old deck... when I found the newer deck's Emperor right in the middle of the stack. Now there's
three of the little bugger, and I still can't figure out what he's trying to tell me. I've taken the spare, "newer" looking one and propped him up on my desk as a reminder. *shakes head* Insistent little dude!