Dancing Bear
Sounds like how my husband and I metDream of meeting a friend from a good friend of mine, meeting him and wanting to get to know him better, he is interesting and funny and seemingly kind. We had a nice flow going on with jokes and talking.
You are going to make me put on weight with all these food dreams LOL!! Especially chocolate LOL!!i bought a box of chocolate bonbons at the tabaco shop somewhere, because i am quite down and i walk down the stairs and meet him, he is seemingly nice again&funny, he is happy to see me vica versa. we exchange phone nrs. It was winter no snow yet, but i feel a christmas eve feeling and have a red long scarve around my neck, i think he had a capuchinno brown one. He lifts my mood and i trust him way too soon. ^^;; (it's food or connections with me isn't it! )
I see the wolf as a teacher and the domestic dog as loyalty..It sounds like me at times, cautious to stpe forwards and when i do i realise I can swim anyway , and all the fuss was over nothing. referring to my spiritual path This is also relevant. the Wolf would be my Guides.. the Domestic dog would be my relatives passed over.. I am workign with them a lot lately.. and was worried my connection with them would not be strong enough.. I am being proven wrong which is a good thing!we meet in a forest that is in my dreams and in reality but just pieces of the reality part. I have seen this forest before. We go with a grey dog/wolf. I see a flash of my black sisterdog layla, she looks cautious, she might be a bit scared even. the wolf is going in the pond/sea i worry because i don't know if he has gone swimming before he goes really deep under the water there!! First he put his head under water and there where allot of bubbles and foam going to the surface, he knew how to handle the water! I wanted to explore the forest and go further, wanted to show him the beautifull dreamy scenery with fluffy trees of light pink and soft light pink grain thingies and grass and then look beyond. But suddenly!
I LOVE dark furniture ( all the furniture in my own home is of dark redwood, and old) Owls to me represent my Nan.. She loved them.. I have felt her around me a LOT!! I also do have a small owl ornament next to her picture. Next door that can be seen from my laundry door have a massive one sitting on a cage.. They apparently scare the native birds off.. I am glad the native birds cant see it from my birdbath.. I would be rather annoyed LOL! Green is the colour of Love for me.. So it sounds like i am to surround myself with things I love for me to be at peace and ready to embark on the path i am choosing!!We were in an old beautifull room that had darkred very fancy old (but all in good shape) darkred or a red i'm not sure. With darkmahogany framing. There where at least to chairs like that and a dark (chocolate ) shiney mahogany (recently glazed with that glazing stuff!) coffeetable. There where at least two owl ornaments, one tiny and one sized like a real one, perhaps it was a real one! I remember seeing a golfgreen colour too don't know on what! Maybe a rug or on the desk. There was a fireplace and he was going to make chocolate milk for us two. (i thought of how my boyfriend recently made chocomilk for us, it was with powder in milk, cold ) The house was of two friends/family members of him.
This sounds like my past.. Innocence and trust Lost!!(I hope this dreamscene is not too much, i'll be happy to delete it if i must!)
i thought it was all going to be innocent and playfull and romantic, something that has been missing a while with my own boyfriend. ( I love him very much and it's getting better, but our relationship has to heal, and we have to get out the one room apartment we live in. ) thought it was going to be, but then i suddenly was in a big bed. T_T and i still thought it would be innocent and playfull all with a bit of fluttery feelings mixed with friendly but not going too far, naïve me!! it's a freeaking bed! And then he broke the spell and ewww he did shtuff :S it was suprising to me even though i was in a bed, and i asked him why he did that, he said he wanted to feel what it was like (eww stoopid douche) when he said that i saw my boyfriend instead of him looking downwards confused , and at that time (even then o_0 snap out of it missy!) i thought about how i did not shave some lines (in reality i have to shave way more then just that stupid area. >.> but i degress) Hoping that he would seize his actions i shouted i am not even prepaired! when that did not work i had to use psychical force and whent away or struggled away lol,
in the forest by the pond a rainbow crystal coloured fish and frog, and a cute bird (duck?) maybe a seahorse (not sure if the wolf was there) came too cheer me up. I held on too a crystal rainbow coloured dolphin (thank you db the crystal itself was a dark purple, the undertone of it) and the whole expierence was very soothing and comforting as i hanged unto the fins of mister dolphin. (or misses!) I thought to myself i feel calm and safe and happy now, but this does not amends the wrongs i have to take responsibility for. I was shocked and dissapointed at that person, he was not who i thought he was. And he broke the dreambubble by his actions. I thought of that i did not feel anything except confusion and shock but today i got reminded of how i can forget big less positive events for a while because it's too much at that moment.
I understand the feelings towards the person you dreamt of.. Yes forgetting major events like these is a survival thing!! It helps us get through and heal in our own time.. gently!! All these beautiful gentle animals are definately healers, frogs are cleansing..rainbow fish is spirtuality, Birds are a weakness i have, I just Love any wild bird they all have their own meanings.. And Ducks, well My real dad when i first met him.. he spoke of me when i was little.. He would take me down to the park.. He said i would sit and watch and feed the ducks all day he let me LOL!! I am visitng him over christmas I havent seen him in a long time.. Dolphins How gogeous.. ( Your welcome LOL) Dolphins are a new path to me. a new breath of life.., New beginings.. This sounds like me so much!! I changed my entire life..As did my Husband..
Absolutely it holds meaning for me too.. I am going through just this right now..It is anohter facet to it all, and it is vital to my spiritual path.. to turn around and face my past with new eyes, allow myself to heal from the hurt.(I was in the store today irl, and i heard that a man fell, when i got outside he was standing and people where talking to him that he should go to the hospital, i felt relieved that he was okay, when i got home i wanted to tell a friend but i forgot when we talked about other things, later it popped up.
Maybe a handy mechanisme somewhere for the moment, but i have to make sure i don't numb my feelings, trying be kind to myself and to allow myself to feel the sad stuffs when i can!!! It can turn into fysical errors in my bodysystem! I practice when i feel sad feelings when i watch movies/series and such, because it's more safe to allow myself to feel those feelings and it feels very healthy to feel sad and let my emotions be&flow in a gentle way, but i notice that the wall is quite firm and stands strong, that feels okay too because i'm working on it when i can lol and allowing it at least. Maybe this mechanisme holds a clue for you too! I thought it was important to add. )
i was home (at my moms place) And i saw a lightblue oldtimer car maybe a beetle and a lightbrown skinned guy with black&white clothing and high curly hair. He was laughing and i knew that that idiot guy was with him and put him up to this. He was at the backdoor and i was confronted with guilt and how to explain this to my boyfriend. I did not want to see him sad,but i could not not explain, when the realities i kept apart in my mind mixed, i became conscious of it. how unfair this was and not how i wanted to go about it, the guy started to act a bit insane in a non good way, and mean way, i felt like he wanted to say things and ruin my relationship for fun. I knew that even though the rainbow crystal friends gave me a feeling that the chapter was closed and i was over it, i had to face it and be true in why and what to my boyfriend too. Even if it whent too far i whent to far in allowing myself to be there, allowing those split realities to excist, not really facing them when i was conscious in either. Wanted to tell him the truth of allowing myself to be there and experience what i was missing allot in our relationship. ugh heavy dream that makes me realize o.a. that i should keep the romantic needs in my fantasies and not allow an opening for more. To be conscious about that it's not just a dream to get carried away in. LOL
and so the dream ended!
The Brown skinned man with curly hair sounds like my Brother..He and I are extremely close..and alike. My Brother also spends tiem with the person who hurt me..My Brother doesnt really know about the Hurt caused.. so i dont hold it against him. But my Brother can see the streak this person has and is cautious..The Nasty person has tried to hurt and sabotage my life many many times.. and the rainbow friends as you clal them.. have saved me time and time again.. For me this is saying I am on the right path.. I am correct in what i have chosen for me.. I am now untouchable from this person who put hurt on me.. I healed a lot.. and i thank this person Now , because it has led me to here!!
and NO concentrate on the romantic tie you already have and keep the rest at bay.. They are not needed, you can have it all in the one person you already have at your side.
Except for a part where there was a road with allot of cars where there was game where you had to cross the road and avoid the cars but you could only stop for a little while i think. I did it too. There where also some strippers doing that. ;P
i don't know if there is something you can get out of this, hope it makes sense and is not too shocking. ^^;; *hughug* you made me a special dolphin indeed!
LOL!! dodgems LOL!! I get this bit too!! Sounds like the time I had when i was on my own
( for a long time) It felt like i was dodging cars at every corner.
Thanks you so much Yora for your insightful dream.. Sounds like you were remote viewing there too with all that old dark furniture.. Confirms it was for me !!