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As with any good party, new people are always welcome to join in! So, welcome!Eleonora said:Hello
I know I am late to the party, but I see others starting IDS now, so here I am.
Well, since you can't decide, let the cards tell you which deck wants you to pick it and use it the most for the IDS. Since you've already narrowed it down to three decks, you don't have to go through the day-long decision-making process I used to choose the AET from the 32 decks I started with that I posted here in the original IDS thread. But part of that process (or something close to it) might be helpful to you.Eleonora said:I can't decide. Every time I am sure of one,
the next day another is calling my name.
All three has a lot to study,
& all three are telling me: 'I am the One'
Eleonora
Ask each deck "What are your strengths and weaknesses for being used in the IDS?" and then select two cards from each deck, one for strengths and one for weaknesses. Interpret the cards however you might like. If there's a clear winner, you don't need to go any further. If there's a clear loser, you're down to two decks.
Assuming you're down to two decks, you can then ask other questions. Although I normally don't ask Yes/No questions and I don't use reversals, for this process I did. I asked head-to-head three card Yes/No questions. If the answer from both decks is the same, ask another question. Keep going until one deck gives a different answer. I started with "Will I be able to use you for the entire three months of the IDS?" and then asked "Will I enjoy using you for the entire three months of the IDS?" I had my answer by the second question when one deck gave a resounding Yes answer and the other answered Maybe.
Other questions you could ask are:
- Will our relationship be an easy one? (be careful of any deck that answers Yes, cause that's a lie. I believe every one who's done an IDS has hit at least one rough patch along the way)
- Will I regret having chosen you? (same caveat as above)
- What will you teach me?
- What will I learn from you?
- How do you see me?
Hope this helps some. And again, welcome to the !
Rodney