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Okay, as to more information from the querent. She is single, keeps dating (short and long term men) that rarely have jobs(if they do have jobs, they aren't hard working and don't share the wealth). They are not typical bad boy harley types, more like drunks and addicts pretending to be bad boys. Scum in my opinion.
Okay so my take on it. I am going to go with my original assessment with some minor changes. The significator of the querent is that she is ready to change (this fits with her now) but she is still struggling with it. She does have more to do and needs to pay attention to details in order to do it. Her quesited, the Roy, is very much choosing relationships on surface qualities. She is picking men that portray one thing but are another entirely. They show off, but are controlling and domineering underneath the flash. In her first conjunction, the 8 of coins, I see this as her being monopolized. A bit of an upheaval and her jumping through others hoops. But she is choosing this. So yes, she is going to them and they to her. The second conjunction is the 4 of wands. This I take to show a fear of reaching out. She is afraid of branching into new areas (like a positive representation of herself towards men of the same stature) and she needs to balance her veiws in order to make changes.
The passing I feel are important to the why's of this. I really think these are about how her family has brought her up and her single family unit now. Her perception of what she is supposed to be compared to her reality is what is driving this train. Also the Valet in the 10th house, portrays a misconception or misrepresentation. She is also portraying a surface quality (the bad goth girl) while underneath she is not that at all. She is looking at her goal, but missing what she has (her good qualities are getting buried under this crap.)
Okay all that aspects and trine stuff is so over my head. This is a headache making type of reading! Hehe, I think that I shall NOT try this one again anytime soon. Perhaps when I have a better grip on my reading style to begin with. LOL
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Okay so my take on it. I am going to go with my original assessment with some minor changes. The significator of the querent is that she is ready to change (this fits with her now) but she is still struggling with it. She does have more to do and needs to pay attention to details in order to do it. Her quesited, the Roy, is very much choosing relationships on surface qualities. She is picking men that portray one thing but are another entirely. They show off, but are controlling and domineering underneath the flash. In her first conjunction, the 8 of coins, I see this as her being monopolized. A bit of an upheaval and her jumping through others hoops. But she is choosing this. So yes, she is going to them and they to her. The second conjunction is the 4 of wands. This I take to show a fear of reaching out. She is afraid of branching into new areas (like a positive representation of herself towards men of the same stature) and she needs to balance her veiws in order to make changes.
The passing I feel are important to the why's of this. I really think these are about how her family has brought her up and her single family unit now. Her perception of what she is supposed to be compared to her reality is what is driving this train. Also the Valet in the 10th house, portrays a misconception or misrepresentation. She is also portraying a surface quality (the bad goth girl) while underneath she is not that at all. She is looking at her goal, but missing what she has (her good qualities are getting buried under this crap.)
Okay all that aspects and trine stuff is so over my head. This is a headache making type of reading! Hehe, I think that I shall NOT try this one again anytime soon. Perhaps when I have a better grip on my reading style to begin with. LOL
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