stefficus
blackroseivy said:This concludes this thread. I will start another this weekend, & pm those interested.
yay!!
Contacting those who have passed over?
yay!!
Quester
blackroseivy said:
I do need to trust more...as far as getting out...could be about being more open...hmm.
Finding myself...something I am trying to do all the time.
Thanks Bri!
blackroseivy
Quester said:
You're welcome!
Tansey Ella
thanks for the pm will look for thread next week.
blackroseivy
Somehow I managed to miss Missycab - thought I HAD done hers!! I pm'd, however.
I pm'd, however.shotthebreeze
Blackrose,
Can we do another exchange? I sent the reading on Veronika and I don't remember if you sent me the second part of Lynne's reading. My PM box has been acting funny...
Can we do another exchange? I sent the reading on Veronika and I don't remember if you sent me the second part of Lynne's reading. My PM box has been acting funny...
blackroseivy
C'mon over to the other thread! hehe
heheAllyBrooke
Delayed Feedback
Hello blackroseivy,
I am so sorry I didn’t post feedback on your reading, I have no excuse but so say that I forgot, then last night in bed I suddenly remembered that I had not thanked you for this very special message.
It’s now 4 weeks since we lost Martin, and although I am able to get on with life as usual (except for the odd moment), my mum is still finding it very hard, and I know that she has encountered many problems which she is having to deal with along the way, as I shall explain in my feedback.
It was quite uncanny when I saw your thread, as we had lost my stepdad, Martin just the night before I posted on your thread. I was still in a bit of a daze as he had passed very quickly, and unexpectedly.
He always did like a good talk, and we would talk for hours about EVERYTHING. He was the one person that I could confide in.
Well we are all asking the question why… He went into hospital for a heart operation and came through the operation very well. He was recovering well, sat up having visitors etc. Then suddenly 3 days later he took a turn for the worse, we was called to the hospital at 12pm (midnight) on the Wednesday, they operated on him another 2 times because they didn’t know why his body had suddenly started to shut down, but less than 24 hours after we arrived at the hospital, we lost him. After the autopsy we discovered that he had a very rare infection which starts off on your skin, but this has got into his body and quickly shut down all his major organs, one by one.
Not sure what TM is though…
This could be referring to the inquest which is scheduled for January. Apparently the inquest will not apportion blame, but mum feels that Martins level of care straight after the operation could have been better, and possibly if this was the case then we would not be in this situation now, so she has to decide whether she wants to get a solicitor and pursue the situation further, asking the right questions as the inquest would definitely help.
I am glad about this, but not surprised. He lost his brother about 30+ years ago, and I know that he missed him dreadfully, he would talk about him often, so he will be very happy to be reunited with Michael (his brother), him Mum and also his Dad.
Sorry, not a U2 fan, more a blues fan. But he did have a very varied taste in music!!
This really surprised me, he was not one for using bad language in front of ladies, possibly only with the men when he was at work, so not sure what this is all about.
The hospital he was in is about 2 minutes from my house, and I was the last person that he visited before he went in. The hospital is at the top of a gentle hill and is called Castle Hill Hospital.
Again not sure …
Now this makes more sense. We have since found out that since he passed he had recently changed his mortgage, and because he had to declare that he was going into hospital for a heart operation, the mortgage lender would not insure him. So he died without life insurance. Hence, my mum still has the mortgage to pay and she is on long term sick. We have found a way around this, something about the fact that because she is on sick she can claim on her insurance from the time that Martin passed, but it has all been very traumatic for my mum, and at one point she was not sure that she would be able to afford to stay in the house, but hopefully this is getting sorted. There has been many letters back and forth to the bank, as not all their accounts were joint accounts, so she is having to apply for probate.
Don’t know about the other bank, this has not come to light as yet!
Well he passed on the 21st of August, and my sons birthday was on the 11th of August, but I can’t think of any other important dates around this time.
Helping the rest of the family is what I am trying to do. I do seem to be able to cope with his passing better than most, I think that this is because my belief system is so much different to theirs. I believe that when we pass we truly do go to somewhere that is a much nicer, happier place than here. And it is us, that are left behind to suffer. The deceased is no longer restrained by feelings of loss, guilt, sadness etc. That, unfortunately is an earthbound affliction, which we must work through in order to grow and meet up with our loved ones once again in spirit world. I don’t think the rest of my family has come to the same conclusions about death as me, yet. In as much as death is not the end, but just the next part of our souls journey.
Once again, thank you very much blackroseivy for this wonderful message. This was a first for me and you helped immensely.
Lots of love
Allybrooke
xxx
Hello blackroseivy,
I am so sorry I didn’t post feedback on your reading, I have no excuse but so say that I forgot, then last night in bed I suddenly remembered that I had not thanked you for this very special message.
It’s now 4 weeks since we lost Martin, and although I am able to get on with life as usual (except for the odd moment), my mum is still finding it very hard, and I know that she has encountered many problems which she is having to deal with along the way, as I shall explain in my feedback.
It was quite uncanny when I saw your thread, as we had lost my stepdad, Martin just the night before I posted on your thread. I was still in a bit of a daze as he had passed very quickly, and unexpectedly.
He always did like a good talk, and we would talk for hours about EVERYTHING. He was the one person that I could confide in.
Well we are all asking the question why… He went into hospital for a heart operation and came through the operation very well. He was recovering well, sat up having visitors etc. Then suddenly 3 days later he took a turn for the worse, we was called to the hospital at 12pm (midnight) on the Wednesday, they operated on him another 2 times because they didn’t know why his body had suddenly started to shut down, but less than 24 hours after we arrived at the hospital, we lost him. After the autopsy we discovered that he had a very rare infection which starts off on your skin, but this has got into his body and quickly shut down all his major organs, one by one.
Not sure what TM is though…
This could be referring to the inquest which is scheduled for January. Apparently the inquest will not apportion blame, but mum feels that Martins level of care straight after the operation could have been better, and possibly if this was the case then we would not be in this situation now, so she has to decide whether she wants to get a solicitor and pursue the situation further, asking the right questions as the inquest would definitely help.
I am glad about this, but not surprised. He lost his brother about 30+ years ago, and I know that he missed him dreadfully, he would talk about him often, so he will be very happy to be reunited with Michael (his brother), him Mum and also his Dad.
Sorry, not a U2 fan, more a blues fan. But he did have a very varied taste in music!!
This really surprised me, he was not one for using bad language in front of ladies, possibly only with the men when he was at work, so not sure what this is all about.
The hospital he was in is about 2 minutes from my house, and I was the last person that he visited before he went in. The hospital is at the top of a gentle hill and is called Castle Hill Hospital.
Again not sure …
Now this makes more sense. We have since found out that since he passed he had recently changed his mortgage, and because he had to declare that he was going into hospital for a heart operation, the mortgage lender would not insure him. So he died without life insurance. Hence, my mum still has the mortgage to pay and she is on long term sick. We have found a way around this, something about the fact that because she is on sick she can claim on her insurance from the time that Martin passed, but it has all been very traumatic for my mum, and at one point she was not sure that she would be able to afford to stay in the house, but hopefully this is getting sorted. There has been many letters back and forth to the bank, as not all their accounts were joint accounts, so she is having to apply for probate.
Don’t know about the other bank, this has not come to light as yet!
Well he passed on the 21st of August, and my sons birthday was on the 11th of August, but I can’t think of any other important dates around this time.
Helping the rest of the family is what I am trying to do. I do seem to be able to cope with his passing better than most, I think that this is because my belief system is so much different to theirs. I believe that when we pass we truly do go to somewhere that is a much nicer, happier place than here. And it is us, that are left behind to suffer. The deceased is no longer restrained by feelings of loss, guilt, sadness etc. That, unfortunately is an earthbound affliction, which we must work through in order to grow and meet up with our loved ones once again in spirit world. I don’t think the rest of my family has come to the same conclusions about death as me, yet. In as much as death is not the end, but just the next part of our souls journey.
Once again, thank you very much blackroseivy for this wonderful message. This was a first for me and you helped immensely.
Lots of love
Allybrooke
xxx
blackroseivy
OH that's wonderful!!
TM is "Transcendental Meditation", btw - I don't know if he would have gotten that or if it came from somewhere else.
Speaking of which, that "bad language" came as a slight surprise to me as well - don't know if he was just being over-emphatic, or again if it came from somewhere else entirely?? This is a big experiment to me.
I know that there were a couple/few people out there who were interested when I start another thread. There have been personal reasons why I haven't felt up to it lately, but I am re-inspired, & may start one soon.
So glad I was able to help, AB!! & my sincere condolences...
TM is "Transcendental Meditation", btw - I don't know if he would have gotten that or if it came from somewhere else.
Speaking of which, that "bad language" came as a slight surprise to me as well - don't know if he was just being over-emphatic, or again if it came from somewhere else entirely?? This is a big experiment to me.
I know that there were a couple/few people out there who were interested when I start another thread. There have been personal reasons why I haven't felt up to it lately, but I am re-inspired, & may start one soon.
So glad I was able to help, AB!! & my sincere condolences...
