Hi, everyone. Here is an update...I cleaned my house yesterday very carefully (though I didn't vacuum - great excuse not to!) and no luck so far. I will sort through the vacuum cleaner canister later when I have time. I like the idea of a high-powered flashlight but I really feel strongly that it's a goose chase. If it went down the drain in this house, it's gone.
I have to say, though, that while I did cry a lot Friday when I first found out, I am curiously optimistic about this turn of events. We have been going through a series of challenges in the past few years and this one was like "Snap! That was it, the last trial for a bit. Now things can get back to normal." Weird, huh? Still, that is the way I feel, like there's a checklist somewhere that indicates each challenging event we've faced of late and this one came at the end of the list before a little patch of sunlight that is now coming in. Call me an optimist or call me a Fool
but I've made peace with it.
But I want to thank you all so kindly for your efforts here. The main thing I needed was not to be chained to an obsessive compulsion to search endlessly and I am very free of that.