DREAM TEAM JUNE 15-JULY 13, 2014 GROUP 2

Mellaenn

Liralen, I wanted to know I have not forgotten you. I've had a number of dreams but they were clearly for me and there was nothing whatsoever that I could link to your focus, but we have another day or two. (Daniel, I love the rainbow rose, by the way!)

Liralen

Hello everyone, I loved your dreams for me, and also those roses you imagined

! I'll give you proper feedback tomorrow.

Mellaenn

Liralen, I feel so bad - this has not happened for me in the dream groups before, but I did not get any dreams for your question. My dreams were all concerned with career. I am sorry!

I was curious, though, is it possible that a lot of your energy is going into work or school and therefore you haven't had as much time to focus on attracting a romance as you would like? Just a thought...

Liralen

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bleudiamond said:
Liralen,

First off, I was thinking of lemonade and ballerina pink colored roses.

Aaw, that sounds so pretty

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bleudiamond said:
I had a dream for you and here it is:
I kept going places with friends and one of them is a dude with black hair who has warm fleshy hands. He kept glancing at me from behind his glasses. Finally, I decided I had to make the first move since he seemed shy.
In the next section of the dream, the male portion of our soon to be wedding is looking for a place to hunt. I remember they stop at a gas station and they are all looking at a map and then someone recognizes a couple of good areas. There was a weird moment in the dream where I saw a deer start nudging a big bunny in the dream then picked it up and vigorously shook it. Like some strange side story happening while they are searching for a hunting area.

I tend to be very passive when it comes to getting to know people because I'm very shy. If you see looking for a relationship as a hunt, then I definitely feel I'm a prey animal

. So me taking the initiative when I meet someone who is also shy, that would probably make me feel like that deer attacking the rabbit. This is such a funny image, and also so apt.

bleudiamond said:
Next thing I know everyone is meeting at this beautiful house before the wedding. Lovely kitchen with granite counter tops and a vaulted ceiling in the living room. I remember telling someone in his family that he can leave all of his money to his nieces and nephews and children-- don’t worry, none for me. I remember his mother was sick with something in the dream, maybe a type of cancer. She kept explaining that the doctors let her had some of the things she wanted to eat and such so she wouldn’t go crazy. Also I had to leave at the end because I was going to pick out a new wedding dress; I discovered there was something wrong with the one I had.

This is also interesting because I recently had a similar conversation with my mother about inheriting money from her (we were just speaking hypothetically), and I said I don't want anything. Also, my mom had cancer a few years back.
As to the wedding dress, I have some rather negative ideas about long-term relationships and marriage, so I guess this means I will have to find a new way of thinking about this.

bleudiamond said:
What I got from the first part of the dream was taking the initiative. I kept thinking I'd be 80 before this guy made a move and after I did, things turned out ok. The message is never let any prospect slip by without seeing if the feelings are mutual. Maybe also you can find the right relationship through a mutual acquittance as in the dream.
It's funny that you want to know how to find the relationship when so much emphasis in the middle section of the dream was on the correct location of "the hunt." But they completely didn't even see the deer and rabbit nearby. I'm not sure what to take from this, that your search area needs to be either right under your nose or at place that someone suggests.
In the last section of the dream it strikes me that the mother was explaining how she got just enough of the things she wanted. Learning to compromise and in doing so, getting what you need. Also, I think this part shows that it is important to woo the family and make sure you come into their lives without making them feel threatened, if possible.

Hope something here makes sense to you. : )

You are right about taking the initiative; letting a prospect slip by already happened to me a few times because I was too passive. Finding someone through a mutual friend seems like a good idea to me; like I said, I'm really shy, and talking to complete strangers is hard for me. So if I meet someone who is friends with someone I already know, that feels a bit safer.
I'll keep your advice in mind, thank you very much

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Liralen

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danieljuk said:
Hi Liralen,
I am writing up the dream I had for you last night today because tomorrow looks very busy looking after my Nephew. But if I have any more dreams I will update further This week seemed to be much easier than last week to dream, I really think it's due astrologically to Mercury Retrograde.

I love you asked people to imagine a rose for you because we are all going to come with different one's. Here is what I imagined for you....

It's a rainbow rose! okay so I am slightly rainbow biased but I really thought it suited you with many colours! I was researching into the rainbow rose and it's artificially created and there is info about it here

Interestingly I saw the rose this colour when I imagined it and thought of your question, I didn't really choose this colour. I then had to think about why rainbow colours would suit you because your question is really about finding someone to make your complete. All those colours of the rainbow, make one beautiful thing. I also think it's full of positive optimism about the future with romance for you.

Oh my, I love that rose, it's so beautiful! And as to rainbows, I'm always happy when I see one, for me they are always a positive sign, as if spirit is telling me everything will be okay.

danieljuk said:
I had a dream for you but I can't do this one without pictures to illustrate! So this has accidentally become a bit mycroftesque but need images. The pictures I found on google almost are exactly what I saw. It was quite vivid.

The dream had two endings but the beginning was the same for both. I dreamt of a haunted house. It was really really stereotypical of a haunted house. I imagined it exactly like this one as Disneyland, Paris -

this was an abandoned spooky old house and I dreamt you went up to it but you were afraid. It seemed threatening and scary. If you entered the house anything could happen. Was there nasty supernatural powers and energies or was the house safe to walk into structurally? many questions but all about risk. I could see you outside considering it. But then I saw that the house turned comical! the threat was gone!

I saw this....

which is something from my childhood. It is tinned spaghetti in a tin but it's cut up and so not long and in tomato sauce. I remember it so visibly and it started to come out of the haunted house windows and down the front of the house. I see this as quite comical. You then entered the house with no fear! Something had taken away the apprehension. The house had a scary image but was less threatening. The threat was worse than the reality.

Thank you for adding the images, Daniel, they are really helpful in imagining what the dream was like. This is a great image and yes, I do have fears about long-term relationships stemming from my childhood. I really am afraid of having to live through the kind of awful relationship my mother and my father and also my mother and my stepfather had. When I meet new people, I always wonder if they are safe to be around. Even if they seem nice and everything is going well, I worry that they will change, or rather show themselves as they really are, once things get more serious. I thought I was over this, but apparently not. But the spaghetti image is funny and seems to indicate that I don't have to worry so much.

danieljuk said:
The dream repeated during last night. Same thing again but no tinned spaghetti this time. This time two people bravely went to the front door. There was a lady who was tall and thin. She had jet black hair which was very long (at least down to her waist). Next to her was a guy. He had dark features but wore clothes that had a sports / casual style. like sports shoes, those long shorts and a shirt and he wore a baseball cap, backwards. The cap seemed really prominent to me. He had his nose pierced and had a chain on his shorts. Like sort of sports / punk / skateboarding style. I felt intuitively that it was you and him as a couple. So maybe that is what he could look like or maybe he is just a symbol. Anyway you walked into the house with no fear or problems. Confidence! I felt the couple were lovers or at least interested in each other as a connection.

Well, since I prefer to wear casual clothes, it seems likely that I end up with someone who doesn't like to wear formal clothes, either. And I've always liked sporty guys

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danieljuk said:
Interpreting the dreams, I think the haunted house represents a fear or apprehension about romantic relationships. They might be linked to the past. last year in the dream circles we looked at 'houses' a lot and they represent your 'life'. So the state of the house can reflect that and your emotional side. This is a scary place and I think it represents a fear with love and relationships. Maybe there is lots of questions like before entering the haunted house. what if.....? what if.....? if there is a person you like, you should go with the flow, at your own speed. don't be rushed! when you are ready to go in the house you are ready! but don't be anxious about it, see what happens. Dream moods says that this symbol represents "unfinished emotional business", just wanted to include that as well.

I think the spaghetti maybe represents not taking it too seriously or worrying that you have not found someone yet. look at the funny side of life. This could also represent childhood because I saw the symbol as from my childhood.

The couple in the second ending could be a positive message about you will find someone. I am not sure how you feel about the fact that you could walk through the door to the haunted house fine with a love partner. I wondered if you were glad or that or if it annoyed you that you had company to 'take the risk' I feel positive about this, not like it's a problem.

so in answer to the question:- How can I find/create the kind of romantic relationship that I would like to have?

I think you have to come at it from a position of confidence. It seems a bit scary and you don't know what will happen. Put the anxiety to one side and take this step by step. Just see what happens when you socialise with people and don't think too far ahead. I think also coming at this with good humour and not taking it too seriously. I wonder if there is something emotional or from your childhood you need to work through. I just found out in the last few months that really I have to work through some emotional issues and I think I am not "ready" for a relationship until that point. We have to be in the right place and then it all comes together which I think it will for you. I see positive symbols in my dream for you about the future, you just have to enter the scary house

hope you can take something from this Liralen!

I agree with you, there still is a lot of "unfinished emotional business". I have done a lot of work in that area in the last few years, but if I'm honest, I have to admit there is still more to be done. Like I mentioned above, there are some really deep-rooted fears. But in the end, I guess I will just have to take the risk - you can never be completely sure things will work out well. I also see the couple in the second dream as a positive sign. I like your advice about not thinking too far ahead and not taking things too seriously. You really can drive yourself crazy with this. Thanks a lot for the dreams, Daniel, they've been very helpful

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Liralen

Mellaenn said:
Liralen, I feel so bad - this has not happened for me in the dream groups before, but I did not get any dreams for your question. My dreams were all concerned with career. I am sorry!

I was curious, though, is it possible that a lot of your energy is going into work or school and therefore you haven't had as much time to focus on attracting a romance as you would like? Just a thought...

Aaw, don't feel bad about this, Mellaenn, it's no problem

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And yes, a lot of energy has gone into work in the last few years, things have been really stressful, so I didn't have much energy left for going out, socialising etc. I hardly ever did. Things are changing now, though, so I think maybe there might be changes in the romance area as well

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danieljuk

hope you had a good dream week Liralen and hope you do find the perfect partner in future

Don't let the past, affect your future relationships

DanielJUK's Dream Week

this is my symbol for the week and it's the heart chakra on a person....

Recently I was doing a meditation on an app on my phone and picked the wrong one to play, I picked an inner child meditation. I have never worked on that area ever before and it was quite upsetting and painful to be honest. I managed to ignore a whole area of my life for years and that is my emotional health. I think it was a big realisation and managed to heal my inner child a little but want to work much more in that area. I have been working on self improvement for many years and really focused on my spirituality for the last 24 months. But my poor emotional health. I have a feeling that a lot of things in my life are about emotional problems.

so my question this dream week is: what can I do to improve my emotional healing?

I'm not asking for any medical health advice on this question but more what can I do spiritually if that makes sense to make improvements in my area. I think I accidentally neglected this area in my life. Looking forwards to your dreams

Mellaenn

Daniel - what a beautiful icon for your dream week! This is an excellent question. Some say there are no accidents and picking the inner child meditation may not have been the 'wrong one' after all.

At any rate, in a few hours I'm off to sleep (perchance to dream!)

danieljuk

oh I totally agree Mell about the no accidents! the universe always throws surprising things at me

but I am glad of the realisations and the things to make me grow! looking forwards to what comes up this week!

Mellaenn

Daniel, I had a dream for you - and get this, you starred in the dream! When I first woke up and pondered the dream I thought maybe my psy powers were improving, but then I remembered that I do know what you look like - your piccie is in your profile! Still, I think it says something for your astral presence that you were able to enter into my dream.

I'm titling the dream "Music Lessons". In the dream, I've decided I want to take music lessons and I make an appointment with a well-known local teacher. I remember thinking that I only just now have the time and patience for these lessons; I could not have done them before in my life. I am quite eager so I arrive at the studio early, hoping to get started but the teacher is with another student, so I wait in a sort of anteroom outside the studio.

As I wait, YOU enter, Daniel and we begin to chat about what turns out to be our mutual budding interest in music. Upon further conversation, we realize that we both see the music as a form of therapy. I confess that I've written a poem and wish to set it to music but before you could reply, I woke up.

My key words in this dream are lessons, music, therapy, and poetry. I see the notion of lessons as life - along with my thought that I only just now could do the music lessons - acknowledging that I am ready to tackle the emotional stuff now. The music itself is the metaphor for the emotional harmony that you seek (that we all seek, actually!) To view this very creative process as therapy - I think in a simple way this dream may urge you to go to the heart of your creative self and be open to the process of creating in any form. Creation = love = expansion and can help to move you away from any state of anxiety or self doubt you may be experiencing.

The poetry is a profound form of self-expression, and indeed, when you stop and think about it our emotions are just exactly that. Maybe if we thought of emotions as we might a musical instrument, one that required care and diligent practice in order to produce beautiful music, we can be a little more open to our emotional life. There are skills we can learn! Now we might see it as a little more doable and less daunting.

The key will be 'going to the studio' - eg, life itself - and meeting other students who are also learning how to play their own instruments as well.

Just a few thoughts; I hope there is something you can use here. It's early in the week, I may yet have another. Always a pleasure dreaming for you!