Who you WOULD pick...
Jubilee!
http://abc.go.com/shows/the-bachelor/cast/jubilee
So first off, Jubilee is straight up GORGEOUS. The picture doesn't do her justice. She is an athletic built 5'4" war veteran from Florida (born in Jamaica). She is an interesting combination of fiesty and sweet. Jubilee has a very tragic past. Her entire family died (she doesn't know the specifics) when she was very young. She was adopted by an American family. Jubilee is very forward and says just what she is thinking at all times...which rubbed some of the other girls in the mansion the wrong way. But she has...that something...that draws you in. Unfortunately, she struggles with opening up and when she feels uncomfortable (which happens a lot) she completely shuts down, refusing to talk and runs away while needing her partner to chase her. Complicated. I fear as wonderful as Jubilee is, she would be very high emotional maintenance...and it would exhaust you.
OMG, you have no idea how much I am laughing right now while reading this. Jubilee reminds me in some ways of an ex of mine who was born in Jamaica, but lives in the US - I'm Australian, so this is a significant coincidence. This ex of mine was also opinionated, but had a tendency to shut down when she felt uncomfortable and it was very emotionally draining albeit kind of hot
I like a good challenge, and those who are too openly enthusiastic tend to turn me off. No doubt about it, Jubilee is absolutely stunning and I would certainly notice her across a room.
Who you SHOULD choose...
Becca!
http://abc.go.com/shows/the-bachelor/cast/becca
So Becca is notorious for two things...#1 She went on two different season of the Bachelor to find love and #2 she is a virgin! Becca is a 5'5" chiropractic assistant who is originally from Georgia but lives in California. She is cute, funny and has a very sarcastic sense of humor. She is very devoted to her friends and family. She has never been in love so the slow approach would be necessary but she is the kind of girl that once she makes a commitment she sticks with it (obviously...she's managed to stay a virgin all these years...now that is commitment!). She would be the one to choose for a real, lasting relationship that would just keep getting better with time.
Haha, her being a virgin would definitely freak me out I think. Or more likely my sexual history would likely freak her out
No problem with shy girls though, just that my Aries intensity can be a bit much for some and I think this girl would likely run away! Funnily enough I have a bit of a history with corrupting Christians, so if she's saving herself due to a belief in God she may regret the day she met me
Two of the four long term relationships I've had have been with people whose fathers are priests.
The take-away...complicated people can be challenging but very rewarding when you finally breakthrough. The problem is they can also exhaust your emotional resources. It would be a full-time job keeping Jubilee happy and I think you deserve a more equal coupling. Becca would be a slow starter but ultimately a loving, committed, and steadfast lover....sometimes the slow burn makes the hottest fire. Choose the partner who will be open to receiving and giving love without all the work and drama.
Haha, I'll admit I like complicated people, and the happy and sweet types generally bore me senseless. I've been through way too much in my own life to be able to relate to anyone well who hasn't been dealt some hard blows, so it's likely I'd leave Becca in the dust. However, I do love a good, slow burn so I think there is probably some kind of middle ground I need to be seeking out
Love the reading - thank you!!
I'd be lying if I said that these kinds of guilty pleasures don't balance me out after watching political news and other negative news headlines.
