ok let see ,
thanks anemonerosie,
is the real issue then your friend is trying to cause a rivelry and you are just cannon fodder on the side lins ? (I think more focused question a great deal of time lead to more accurate readings of course it is hard to get focused without giving all the details it is a fine line to tread a lot ) I will now look at the book that came with the kipper to see if there is any additional messages
1. riverly with opposite group /been with person for 10 years
community, message, lovers
to be honest, if I didnt' know the question was about how your peers see you at school , I would say that there all your friends feel it is time you guys got married for they see how good a match you are .
there was nothing really new added when I read the little black book that came with the kipper except the thing that stands out is this.
the letter in the old days and even before that,, wars used to be start or stopped by the messenger delivering their important letter.
you see this today by looking for the file that is important to the case within business aka memos, (think erin brockvich movie where they only won the case after the memos was given to them by a disgruntled employee in the movie).
so once you cool your friends intentions, good messages can perhaps smooth things over. the thing to warn about in the message is ciro says that all your messages are out there and made public, ( which I doubt unless you been hacked , so perhaps someone will share a message taken out of context of yours )
since the lovers is here,, perhaps the key thing is not to let this drama affect your current relationship , or that he will be there for you through it out more then you realize.
2. 28. expectation, 32 despair , 36 distant horizons.
so bored
ok looking at the book ,
the expectation is the "3 month patience card" which indicate dont' act rashly but instead be like the blake Shelton as he probes his fellow judges reaction to the singing. (I noticed that one time when his fellow judges were listening he was sitting sideways gauging what they thought and emotions shown on his face before making his decisions. there is a reason he is 5 time winner )
the despair is utter despair so the new heart of the matter where before it was communit,, it became despair.
so I think yes you had boredom but the true issue will e the rivelryy if he does take off will cause a rift and shake up in your group.
the distant horizons besides being dreams ,is really about traveling far , and let that anchor go.
hmm the distant horizon could be the 7 of cups in combo with the world card showing that you have to take a more worldly approach .
in the end , perhaps you should redo a career reading,
3.marrige, 25 high honor , 38 toils and labour
interesting thing about the marriage card,, one of the contributers said that every one would eat the dill so to bring on the sexual desires at a wedding.
well that means that you should look for incentatives for everyone to work together,, like set up some social gatherinngs with the intent to develops friendshiips.
( as it is the self card , have you heard of starting a new convent with yourself ? this is done to hiliarously effect in the movie yes man , with jim carrey. where the leader of the group makes him start a convent with himself to say yes all the time.. so he was saying yes to having a Persian wife, to learning to sky dive,, and over does it..
til he meets the guy in the hospital who explains that it was just to get him started then he was to back off later on after he get out of his shell.
so that is what the wedding here reminds me off,, making a promise to yourself ).
the high honor here points to that you are to be leader , a manager, embrace it.. . this could mean being a guru, or spiritual leader later on.
and yeah the toils mean working hard.
so the only feedback I can think off is it is time to say no more.
I watch a scene in hallmark Christmas movie where her friend at work was asking her to do some of her work for her at work and she said yes til she makes a wish to stand up for herself.. so after the wish she tells her friend that she shouldnt' have to do her friends work for her, as she has her own work to do. , her friend didn't realize she was doing that.. but I bet it happened gradually .
11, sudden wealth, 37 poverty(reversed) and 10 journey
the sudden wealth I feel is a sort of acclaim you will get, as we asked about peers and not about if yo will win bingo eheh.
the poverty when looking at it in the book is a really brutal card , sad to see how conditions were back in Victorian age .
the journey card says you will make a new travel to go where you really have to be.
0. soul message
there will be no child
well ,, sorry but there will.... just joking
the key thing here after reading the book, is the child card is key here next to the courtship card.
since there will be no child far as you know we will take the second approach to the child card.
in the child card she looks so happy full of life,
what I feel should be done is to renew your relationship , like go out for nights on the town,, try new things,, be like you were in yours 20s and dating was new again
the official speaks to a grouchy person,, so while your partner may not be as gruff as the card says,, it says to that he needs some childlike wonder in his life ..
as a soul message it is not related necessary to your first question, but instead what you need to hear at this time. !
so enjoy each other my new friend.
