Watch out, Eric- soon you'll be on the side of the "religious folks and organizations who have complained for years about marketing an occult device as a toy."
At first you thought it was unfortunate that such pressure against marketing to children was making ouija boards hard to find, and now you think it's unfortunate that they are marketed to children. Looks like your views are evolving.
Glad you're so sure about "no spirits hiding inside a tarot deck."
That's a silly way to state that opinion. You think that spirits can be contacted via ouija, in some cases, but you don't think the spirits are "hiding in" the board. Using the phrase "Hiding inside" is just a way to belittle the idea of spirit communication. Obviously your experience has caused you to believe that spirits are not involved with tarot. I myself cannot be so sure, and don't have a final opinion about why tarot works. I've got a lot of working hypotheses, but until I find a way to test them, declaring that spirits cannot be involved seems premature to me.
Gargoyle guarded's focus upon "respect" as the key to having good ouija experiences may be where it's at.
Or not. Who knows.
It's interesting to watch the way that people form their opinions on this board. Seems like so many people have a few experiences, then begin to make generalizations about how and why certain esoteric practices do or don't work, then go about stating their conclusions as fact. (Or, read or hear of some theories regarding why the practices work, then go about stating those as fact. Or a combination of the two. Or, they just speculate about why things work, then state those speculations as fact. [Happily there are also a few who admit that they don't know what they don't know, and only speak of their own experiences as well as they can, and speculate in a spirit of inquiry rather than dogmatism.])
Eric-
Your theory of teenage girls having more pent up emotional energy than teenage boys is an interesting one- but in my experience teenage boys have a fair amount of that as well.
They're just not the ones having the ouija- friendly slumber parties. That theory of it being more dangerous for girls is a little hard to test.
Also- if you think that real spirits can be contacted via the board, how can you be sure that calling upon god or goddess for protection really is not necessary? Well- you seem to be sure of it mainly because you've decided that god or goddess don't exist.
Maybe.
Just throwing out a few tidbits of appropriate doubt among the statements of dogmatism that are popping up here.