Thank you, all the folks who have responded so far, and for your frankness in what could be a somewhat delicate issue. I'm glad we've at last had two or three male responses too! Yes, I am only interested in dream experiences as far as the vote in the poll itself goes. Apart from thinking that there would be less male responders than female, I didn't have any preconceived ideas on what I would find, but its interesting that so far the majority of female responders have experienced dreams in the other gender.
Writers and some other artists would routinely work from the other gender point of view while in artistic flow or trance - I would think that would affect one's dreamworld experiences too. What I do know is that its been a blessing to me to have these other gender dreams - the next best thing to being there!