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Preparing For Love Spread (2 versions)


Preparing For Love Spread (2 versions) by Glass Owl

Are you single and impatiently waiting for love? Will you be ready when love comes knocking on your door?

This spread will help you explore your perceptions, feelings, and expectations regarding love so you can understand how these factors impact your choices and relationships. Furthermore, it will provide you with the tools to prepare you for a healthy, loving relationship -- and be happily single until it manifests in your life.

Simplified Version: 8 Cards

1------4
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2------5
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7------8

1. What are my feelings concerning love? (What my heart says about love.)
2. What are my thoughts concerning love? (What my head says about love.)
3. What expectations do I have in a relationship?
4. What type of person am I drawn to?
5. What type of person do I attract?
6. How can I prepare for the future and welcome a healthy, loving relationship into my life?
7. What can I do to be happily single until love comes knocking on my door?
8. What relationship advice do I need to focus on right now?


Expanded version: 12 Cards

01------04
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02------05
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07------10
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08------11
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1. What are my feelings concerning love? (What my heart says about love.)
2. What are my thoughts concerning love? (What my head says love.)
3. Why did those other relationships end?
4. What did those past relationships serve to teach me?
5. How can I use those lessons to aid me in my future relationships?
6. What expectations do I have in a relationship?
7. What type of person am I drawn to?
8. What type of person do I attract?
9. What is holding back me from entering into a new relationship?
10. How can I prepare for the future and welcome a healthy, loving relationship into my life?
11. What can I do to be happily single until love comes knocking on my door?
12. What relationship advice do I need to focus on right now?
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Glass Owl,
This spread looks great. I've already copied and pasted it into my spread journal. I look forward to reading it, especially as it is appropriate for my current situation. Thank you!
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OMG! I wish more people actually took the time to prepare themselves. I am so tired of people asking me about why they haven't found love, where they can find it, how wonderful this guy is gonna be, and how he's gonna solve all her problems. blah blah blah

It comes when you are ready for it. And never before then. I wish more people could grasp that.

Thank you for giving me an alternative that could actually help these women if I can get them to open their eyes enough to see the truth. I could kiss you right now.
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This spread is something i'm going to use for myself
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This looks like a great spread and I hope to try it out soon, except I am still learning and I don't know if I would necessarily get anything out of it.
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I did this spread and the results were interesting, especially with the card I pulled as for who is attracted to me and who I am attracted to, both majors, and the first was my soul/personality card.
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Wow this was dead on! Thank you so much for posting this. I tried the short one and I'll probably try the longer one tomorrow. Everyone should try this one if they are wondering why they are single and what they need to do to find love.
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This seems like a wonderful spread GlassOwl thank you so much for sharing!

I want to adjust it for someone who is not single but afraid to open up to love... I don't want to be presumptuous and change it without your permission so I was wondering what you think of the idea and how you would go about creating a similar spread only for when you are no longer seeking a love, you have it but you are not ready for it?

Thank you again
Sha x
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As with all of my spreads, feel free to modify and personalize them to suit your needs.

Since you asked for a different version, maybe something like this?

5 Card Mini Version

1-----------------2
---------3---------
---------4---------
---------5---------

1. What are my feelings concerning love? (What my heart says about love.)
2. What are my thoughts concerning love? (What my head says about love.)
3. What are my expectations?
4. What obstacle or stumbling block needs to be addressed?
5. Advice: What will help me open my heart and embrace love?
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Originally Posted by Glass Owl View Post
As with all of my spreads, feel free to modify and personalize them to suit your needs.

Since you asked for a different version, maybe something like this?

5 Card Mini Version

1-----------------2
----------3--------
______4____
______5_____

1. What are my feelings concerning love? (What my heart says about love.)
2. What are my thoughts concerning love? (What my head says about love.)
3. What are my expectations?
4. What obstacles or stumbling block need to be addressed?
5. Advice: What will help me open my heart and embrace love?
That looks perfect, thank you so much! I like the term "stumbling block" as well, very fitting

Blessings
Sha x
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