My experience is not as long as yours, but it is the same - some types of magic cannot be transmuted into "good", because they come entirely from a place of anger and spite. If you want to do good to the person who harms you, then
afterhaving protected yourself, and undone and reversed the harmful spell, you can
then send them light and love and wisdom, and what have you. But like that bullet that comes flying at you - you need to deal with it as it is - and quickly. The Mayi-mayi believe their magic can turn bullets into water, but I've seen many of these lads crippled for life after receiving bullet wounds!
Soul armour - that's good, Wonderwoman
. But mind you don't lock out the happy energies coming your way. That's the trouble with armour - it keeps everything out. Perhaps there are other ways of dealing with this stuff in the long term (like cutting cords entirely, for starters
). If you have solid reason to suspect a harmful spell coming your way, you might want to consult a seasoned witch, who can put up a protective shield for you, then work on neutralising the bad energy coming your way.