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As mentioned before, I highly recommend just LOOKING at the cards, particularly the Noblet.
Try to forget every association you've made in the past to get beyond APPLYING meaning ON TOP of the images. Instead, look at the images themselves. Don't use elements. Don't use numerology. LOOK at the cards. Take the Knight of Swords for instance:
What kind of person is he? Does he look eager? Does he look nice? Smart? Witty? What is his body language saying? How does he relate to the horse he rides? Are they a good match? Is he moving? What story can you imagine him being a character in? Imagine describing him to someone who can't see the card, what would you say about him? Spending time with the cards in this sort of relationship, rather than forcing them to fit into preconceived meaning, I think is the key to loving the TdM.
Spend time with the Courts and Trumps, and get to know them in a relationship like that. Then try pairing two random cards. How do the cards relate to each other?
For instance, in a reading I had this pair come up:
What really struck me was that the yellow light on the ground on the Hermit is only in front of him, it doesn't cast behind him... but look how it seems to have entered into the Queen of Batons! That was a "magical" moment for me when I saw this relationship between the two cards.
After you've spent some time with the Courts and Trumps, then spend time with the Pips.
I've found for me it helps to say "8 Cups" rather than "8 of Cups". Saying "of" makes it abstract. Instead, think about the suits as what they really are. Swords, Cups, Coins, and Batons (sticks!) What associations come to mind when you think of these objects in a real world setting? What do cups do? What similarities to cups are there? Looking out my window right now I see flowerpots, which are also related to cups. Pots and Pans are cups. Swords are Swords, but knifes are swords too. So is a letter opener, and the trowel I use in the garden.
When I think of Three Swords, I think of the Three Musketeers. I think "One for all and all for one", camaraderie, courage. What associations come to mind when you try to imagine 5 Batons? I instantly thought of the "teepee" in my garden with roses growing on it. You could consider writing these down as you look at the cards and explore what they mean to YOU.
Finally, LOOK at the Pips. People sometimes mistakenly call them "Unillustrated", which it total hogwash. They are alive with imagery. Look at the flowers and vines and colors. How do they make you feel? Each one is different. Are they growing? Dying? What of the patterns? Do they remind you of things?
In the end, the beauty of the TdM is that there are no rules. You're not saying that a card means something because someone decided that it did... YOU'RE deciding, for yourself, and you'll probably change your mind about it as often as you read.
It's entirely up to you; but I hope this is helpful.