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I believe you out of context with this Demon Goddess, I don't see it as profiling at all. Nothing derrogitory was said and nothing negative or adverse took place- a question was asked based on someone knowledge of voodo in New Orleans and that person was called ignorant- even after he explained his line of thought and the connection.
Demon Goddess said:Very true... sometimes they're really ignorant and stupid too.
And sometimes, they truly are curious and want to know... I find it really offensive when someone asks me if I'm German or something because my French isn't quite up to their sense of how a French person speaks.
My Daddy taught me a long time ago... Racism isn't what someone says, it is what someone hears.
Which is why I do not and will not allow my children to use the N word, which in the Bahamas amongst my hubby and his friends means "buddy"...
Imagine... my husband having walked into a major Canadian University, fresh off the boat, steps into the cafeteria with his lunch in hand, looks around for a friendly face and sees three black men sitting at a table in the corner having their lunch. Hubby seeing "familiar" faces, strolls over and say's "Hey, how y'all N's doing"... My hubby leads a charmed life, you see, because although he was quite bunny brown from having grown up in the tropics, he is still for all intents and purposes a white man. Two of these men just happened to be from Georgia. You can imagine... I'm sure the three of them paled considerably... The largest of the three chortled and said... "Where you from boy?" Lucky thing hubby was Bahamian. Anyone else would have been picking his teeth up off the ground.
My point is.. If you are used to being on the receiving end of racism... you tend to know it when you hear it.
I'm not often on the receiving end of racism, but I do get sexism and as different as it is, it's similar. Thing is, I can easily tell when someone is just ignorant, as in doesn't know any better, or when they're being sexist.
There is no doubt in my mind that AF was on the receiving end of a racist comment and any suggestion to the contrary is rather silly, because nobody but AF heard it.