obsidian_queen
Hi all
I did a relationship spread about myself and my ex who has resurfaced for the millionth time, although our lives are way more complicated with other people, children etc. but the crazy, bizarre thing is that I want him back. We broke up very badly and I always felt unfinished and incomplete in addition to missing him so much, so I did this relationship spread I found on aeclectic's forms for clarity.
The layout:
6
5 3 1 2 4
7
1 - The relationship as it is now
2 - the querent
3 - the partner
4 - what the querent needs in her life
5 - what the partner needs in his life
6 - Outcome if couple pursues a relationship
7 - Outcome if couple avoids relationship
My cards: African Tarot ( I did not use Reversals)
1 - 6 of swords
2 - 8 of cups
3 - 2 of wands
4 - 5 of cups
5 - 3 of swords
6 - judgement
7 - justice
I'm confused about Judgement and Justice. What happens either way. Does Judgement mean I'll finally get the closure I need even if it doesn't work out with him? Or does it mean we'll get a second chance at our love? OR does it mean we'll realize what is really important and let each other go? Does Justice mean we'll have to find a way to bring balance back into our lives?? I just don't get it. And I know it's because this subject is so emotionally charged. Help guys.
I did a relationship spread about myself and my ex who has resurfaced for the millionth time, although our lives are way more complicated with other people, children etc. but the crazy, bizarre thing is that I want him back. We broke up very badly and I always felt unfinished and incomplete in addition to missing him so much, so I did this relationship spread I found on aeclectic's forms for clarity.
The layout:
6
5 3 1 2 4
7
1 - The relationship as it is now
2 - the querent
3 - the partner
4 - what the querent needs in her life
5 - what the partner needs in his life
6 - Outcome if couple pursues a relationship
7 - Outcome if couple avoids relationship
My cards: African Tarot ( I did not use Reversals)
1 - 6 of swords
2 - 8 of cups
3 - 2 of wands
4 - 5 of cups
5 - 3 of swords
6 - judgement
7 - justice
I'm confused about Judgement and Justice. What happens either way. Does Judgement mean I'll finally get the closure I need even if it doesn't work out with him? Or does it mean we'll get a second chance at our love? OR does it mean we'll realize what is really important and let each other go? Does Justice mean we'll have to find a way to bring balance back into our lives?? I just don't get it. And I know it's because this subject is so emotionally charged. Help guys.