Channeling Others During a Reading

[MandMaud]

I'm sorry I didn't see this sooner.

Any of Dean Radin's books can be found on Amazon. I recommend any of his books. And Dr. Larry Dossey's books are also very good. Dossey's book called Healing Words deals with his experiments with the effects of prayer on illness. I don't mean Christian prayer exclusively. He's found that just prayer of others, no matter what their religious beliefs or even lack of them, makes a big difference in the outcome of serious illness. Healing Words is an older book of his but I notice he's written more books since that one.

Thanks for this! I've just spent a happy quarter-hour downloading lots of kindle samples (my wifi is slow). I think I noticed, in one of the blurbs, that the prayers of *other* people can help the progress of a sufferer's recovery. It's great if there's research showing that - think of all the threads here where we send healing, vibes, or prayers, light candles, etc according to each member's way.

I also got the sample of 'The Power of Premonitions' by Larry Dossey, as well as those more relevant to this thread. That's a topic that's begun to interest me a lot. You may have just been a stepping stone, Grizabella.

 

[Grizabella]

Thanks for this! I've just spent a happy quarter-hour downloading lots of kindle samples (my wifi is slow). I think I noticed, in one of the blurbs, that the prayers of *other* people can help the progress of a sufferer's recovery. It's great if there's research showing that - think of all the threads here where we send healing, vibes, or prayers, light candles, etc according to each member's way.

I also got the sample of 'The Power of Premonitions' by Larry Dossey, as well as those more relevant to this thread. That's a topic that's begun to interest me a lot. You may have just been a stepping stone, Grizabella.

Dr. Dossey is affiliated with a several story medical center. There's a floor plan there that's built like an Italian villa, sort of, with a circular type of floor plan where all the levels of the building have a view down to the first level and can hear the sound of things like someone playing music in the central courtyard that makes the sound and sight available to everyone who is hospitalized there. I've forgotten where the center is, but he mentions it in the book Healing Words. In the book, he passes on the information on the studies that have been done showing definite results of better and quicker healing of patients. He said it doesn't matter if the patient believes in a concept of God or not. And the patients weren't told they were being prayed for. The participants who prayed about specific persons were of all different spiritual beliefs so it wasn't any one set of beliefs that made a difference. And it also didn't matter whether or not those praying even believed in prayer at all. Fascinating stuff!

 

[HOLMES]

ah yes

hi there

myself I use a intensive mental visualization/prayer method before reading and the main reason why I started was to raise up my vibration so I could become more empathic in the reading. as I developed it and adapted what I learned it was to channel if you will the receiving ability of myself into on the client specifically so I wouldn't get impressins of a friend, or whatever was brothering me that day as well.

so if I found myself talking about something else then the reading while shuffling live,, I would force myself to reshuffle so the energy can be focused.

what I would suggest for you is try this.

doing a 7 chakra spread on how to better channel your empathic abilities before doing a reading.
the positiosn are if you don't know
1. root/power
2. sexual/creative
3. will
4. heart
5. voice, expression
6. third eye. psychic healing
7. crown center.
and post in your readings. we will then get your insight,, and can offer ours . .

there has been some posts on grounding, white light, raising up vibration , mediating in our own forum so try doing a search as well.

 

[MandMaud]

Dr. Dossey is affiliated with a several story medical center. There's a floor plan there that's built like an Italian villa, sort of, with a circular type of floor plan where all the levels of the building have a view down to the first level and can hear the sound of things like someone playing music in the central courtyard that makes the sound and sight available to everyone who is hospitalized there. I've forgotten where the center is, but he mentions it in the book Healing Words. In the book, he passes on the information on the studies that have been done showing definite results of better and quicker healing of patients. He said it doesn't matter if the patient believes in a concept of God or not. And the patients weren't told they were being prayed for. The participants who prayed about specific persons were of all different spiritual beliefs so it wasn't any one set of beliefs that made a difference. And it also didn't matter whether or not those praying even believed in prayer at all. Fascinating stuff!

Wow. That courtyard - makes me so wistful I could almost cry, wishing all hospitals and care homes etc had that kind of vision. And it's so bloomin' obvious, plain common sense, that being happier has better outcomes. Beauty can't exactly LOWER people's wellbeing. I remember a very long time ago (in my childhood I think) some study showing how touch improves things... it's the kind of thing that is taken seriously in the world of commerce, marketing etc, just as colours are etc. They got a librarian to touch some people and not others as they checked a book out, just a simple touch as they handed them the book or a ticket or something. They did a survey as people came out. One of the question was had they had any physical contact - most hadn't noticed it. But another question was how they rated that library, and those who'd been touched rated it higher. (I try and touch fingers while giving/receiving change in shops, feeling safe that they won't notice, but wanting to make their day that little bit brighter!)

Sorry, a bit off topic. But all these subliminal psychological things are part of what's going on, in my opinion, when we're channelling or tuning in (I don't call what I do channelling, though I've talked with people who do the same and do call it channelling; language hasn't caught up with the awareness!). After all, 'psyche' means 'soul' but it's still the root of 'psychology' as it also translates as 'mind'. They aren't very different concepts imo.

and post in your readings. we will then get your insight,, and can offer ours . .

Post the reading in Your Readings - not here in Talking Tarot. (Just a pointer, since you're new here.) Then let us know in this thread, I'll be interested!

 

[sorchalight]

Hello!

Thanks for the suggestion of the chakra spread. I did it and I think I have a lot to work on. I posted it in "your readings" http://www.tarotforum.net/showthread.php?p=4542654#post4542654 and would love some input on it. I did my best to interpret it, but I've never done a chakra spread before and would love some help.

Thanks for all the suggestions so far!

 

[LindaMechele]

How do I move on and move on with my life when we put so much trust in the cards. I trust them, never argue against the cards. How do I take solace in the cards when they're telling me what seems an impossible dream. Quite frankly I'm starting to feel pathetic, pining away for this man. I'm over analyzing every tiny detail of every line of conversation looking for signs that the cards are right. How do you let it go and let fate run its course?

Take your focus off of him and put it onto yourself. All the energy you've been putting into figuring out a way to help him, redirect it to figuring out a way to help yourself. The cards said it's coming, but not yet. So no amount of wanting will make it come any faster. It's like looking forward to anything else - vacation, job promotion, birthday, moving into a new home, getting a new car, a birth. No amount of wishing, thinking, wanting, worrying, or anything will make it happen any faster. Accept that.

Enjoy being alone right now, by yourself, no one to worry about being responsible for except yourself and your own feelings. Being an empath, it will only help. I'm empathic as well and, now that I've learned how to enjoy being by myself, I find I need time alone to recharge my batteries, to find my own feelings and remember what those are. To feel again where the world ends and I begin.

It took me a while to learn how to be alone. I thought being alone and being lonely were the same thing, but they are most definitely not. Being lonely is wanting the company of someone so badly, but not getting it. Being alone is quiet bliss, feeling only yourself, knowing that you won't be jerked around by the emotional nose at any moment, not having anyone else's emotions intruding on my own. It's peace.

And practicing being alone now and enjoying it will only make any future relationship that much healthier. I find that since I no longer fear or dread being alone, when I'm with someone else I enjoy it so much more because I know I want to be with them. I know I'm there not because I don't want to be alone, but because I want to be in their company. The latter is so vastly more satisfying than the former.

 

[sorchalight]

Take your focus off of him and put it onto yourself. All the energy you've been putting into figuring out a way to help him, redirect it to figuring out a way to help yourself. The cards said it's coming, but not yet. So no amount of wanting will make it come any faster. It's like looking forward to anything else - vacation, job promotion, birthday, moving into a new home, getting a new car, a birth. No amount of wishing, thinking, wanting, worrying, or anything will make it happen any faster. Accept that.

Enjoy being alone right now, by yourself, no one to worry about being responsible for except yourself and your own feelings. Being an empath, it will only help. I'm empathic as well and, now that I've learned how to enjoy being by myself, I find I need time alone to recharge my batteries, to find my own feelings and remember what those are. To feel again where the world ends and I begin.

It took me a while to learn how to be alone. I thought being alone and being lonely were the same thing, but they are most definitely not. Being lonely is wanting the company of someone so badly, but not getting it. Being alone is quiet bliss, feeling only yourself, knowing that you won't be jerked around by the emotional nose at any moment, not having anyone else's emotions intruding on my own. It's peace.

And practicing being alone now and enjoying it will only make any future relationship that much healthier. I find that since I no longer fear or dread being alone, when I'm with someone else I enjoy it so much more because I know I want to be with them. I know I'm there not because I don't want to be alone, but because I want to be in their company. The latter is so vastly more satisfying than the former.

Thank you for your response. I think you are absolutely right I am having a hard time with patience, and am trying to put my focus on myself and not him, but it is hard to not want to help others. I think the problem is that I am good at being alone. I like to be alone, but I am also very lonely. I wanted his company, but he doesn't want mine anymore. Which makes being alone now, very difficult.

Thank you for your advice, I will keep working on it! Patience is something I have to relearn.