Give me a hand!!!!!!!!

[Little Baron]

Hi guys

I am wanting to do a spread for my friend but my mind has gone all 'cloggy'and I can't come up with a spread lol. It doesn't need to be sophisticated; just simple, and I want to use about 6-8 cards.

A bit of background -

My friend (M)has a friend she has known since school (S).

The two friends are both in relationships.

Recently, when getting together, M has been irritated by the attitude of both S and her boyfriend. There has been slight friction but M has not brought this up with S.

S and her boyfriend have problems of their own at the moment, and this could have something to do with it.

M doesn't know if or how to bring this up with S; that she is offended by their attitudes.

I imagine M wants to gain some insight before possibly confronting the issue and to learn as much from the situation as she can before doing so.

If anyone can think of a 6-8 card spread (that they can make up), I would be grateful as my mind has gone blank.

Cheers

Yaboot

 

[Alissa]

The Dig Deeper spread is one of my favorites. It was originally posted by a member named Myrrha.

....4....
....1....
5..2...6
....3....

Card 1 - Your perception of the current situation

Card 2 - Another's view of it (i.e. the Other Person's, or a more objective view)

Card 3 - The Answer - What you need, but have denied yourself, or not seen

Card 4 - The Hidden Question - What you are really asking, or seeking

Card 5 - What needs left behind, given up or destroyed

Card 6 - What needs created or built

Hope this one might be of help! I like it....

 

[Little Baron]

Thanks Alissa. That seems to fit right without being too specific; have more license with the cards then.

Will give it ago and let you know how it went and what the feedback was.

Cheers

Yaboot

 

[Ivy Rhiannon]

lol yaboot, oh a less serious note, is that there real initials? S & M? Or where was your mind writing this! Hope everything gets worked out!

 

[SilverWing]

Here's one called the Relationship Spread. I think it could be used for friendship just the same. It's from Power Tarot.

*9**
5678
*4**
*3**
*2**
*1**

1. How you see the other person

2. How the other person sees you

3. What you need

4. What the other person needs

5. Where the relationship is now

6.Where you would like the relationship to go

7. Where the other person would like the relationship to go

8. Factors to be considered

9. The end result

 

[SilverWing]

Here's one more I found in Power Tarot

1*2*3***4*5*6
**7*******8**
******9******

Should You or Shouldn't You Spread

1-3 What may happen if you do what you are contemplating

4-6 What may happen if you maintain the status quo

7 Outcome if you make a change

8 Outcome if you don't made a change

9 Something you need to know before deciding