How does she see me?

RedRoof

Hey so I did a love reading on how does my friend see me? I told her my feelings a month ago and she didn't feel the same which is fair enough, although i accepted our friendship it wasn't without my overdramtic reaction in making the sitution worse such as trying to push the friendship too fast in us doing social things together etc. (Something which was offered before i told her i was developing to like her as i felt it would be best to find out where we stand so i didn't get the wrong idea.) I mean I did react quite badly in saying things like if we can't be friends i'd walk out of uni etc as i was unhappy before we were friends etc. I then started seeing a councillor to help with someone of the problems i've been having and she is aware of this and understands/is supportive,

However a month has now passed and we are working in the same project groups and she said she would be up for doing something at some point. (not sure when.) but anywho my question was ''how does she see me now?'' I am aware we are just friends and i am more than happy about that although I have a feeling that she has started to see someone/may be dating. (Not sure if the cards show this or not but you know here they are.)

Page Of Swords: So I think this represents how she needed to have her guard up around me and keep me a slight distance away as she was uncomfortable to a slight extent about things/everything that happened between us.

The Fool: I'm not too sure, maybe she's happy to see me more happy again rather than upset by the past and in turn it makes her happy to see her friend happy?

Future: Strength. Not sure what this would represent in terms of this question and the cards above
 

Meditarot

Hey so I did a love reading on how does my friend see me? I told her my feelings a month ago and she didn't feel the same which is fair enough, although i accepted our friendship it wasn't without my overdramtic reaction in making the sitution worse such as trying to push the friendship too fast in us doing social things together etc. (Something which was offered before i told her i was developing to like her as i felt it would be best to find out where we stand so i didn't get the wrong idea.) I mean I did react quite badly in saying things like if we can't be friends i'd walk out of uni etc as i was unhappy before we were friends etc. I then started seeing a councillor to help with someone of the problems i've been having and she is aware of this and understands/is supportive,

However a month has now passed and we are working in the same project groups and she said she would be up for doing something at some point. (not sure when.) but anywho my question was ''how does she see me now?'' I am aware we are just friends and i am more than happy about that although I have a feeling that she has started to see someone/may be dating. (Not sure if the cards show this or not but you know here they are.)

Page Of Swords: So I think this represents how she needed to have her guard up around me and keep me a slight distance away as she was uncomfortable to a slight extent about things/everything that happened between us.

The Fool: I'm not too sure, maybe she's happy to see me more happy again rather than upset by the past and in turn it makes her happy to see her friend happy?

Future: Strength. Not sure what this would represent in terms of how she see's me tbh

So the PoS and Fool are for the question, "How does she seem me?"
 

Meditarot

Yeah for the question how does she see me, how come?

I think that the PoS indicates she likes to connect with you on a mental level. Brainstorming with a colleaque and such. It doesnt indicate anything romantic necessarily, nor that she keeps her guard up with you in that regard (see 9 of Wands for a card that's pretty much about being guarded. Compare then these two, of how different their symbolism is)

Fool indicates she's ready to meet you on an open ground with a carefree and open attitude. Think of it as smoking a peace pipe with this girl. Yes, you overreacted in the past, but she's a mature person and is willing to let that go.

Future: If you can overcome your past tendencies and urges, this could make you a stronger person in return. :)
 

RedRoof

I think that the PoS indicates she likes to connect with you on a mental level. Brainstorming with a colleaque and such. It doesnt indicate anything romantic necessarily, nor that she keeps her guard up with you in that regard (see 9 of Wands for a card that's pretty much about being guarded. Compare then these two, of how different their symbolism is)

Fool indicates she's ready to meet you on an open ground with a carefree and open attitude. Think of it as smoking a peace pipe with this girl. Yes, you overreacted in the past, but she's a mature person and is willing to let that go.

Future: If you can overcome your past tendencies and urges, this could make you a stronger person in return. :)

Hmm so i guess what you mean is she likes talking to me and working together, being friends basically? If so i could see that and like i said i'm quite happy with that.

Oh so in this case its the fact she's slowly feeling comfortable about socialising together and is considering being open about it. A peace pipe? So because of what i said and have apolgised she's willing to make peace with it and knows i wasn't intetionally trying to hurt her.

Oh a stronger person, how so though?