How to use tarot to reconcile?

[Saskia]

Hi all, given that one of the most common questions in tarot is "how can I get back in touch with x (an ex, a friend, a relative)", or "is x regretting what happened?", I devised this spread to help.

What went wrong and how to try to reconnect

1. The core of the matter?
2. How I feel about this matter?
3. How x feels about this matter?
4. How I feel about reconnecting?
5. How x feels about reconnecting?
6. If I contact x, what's the most likely response I get?
7. What's the most likely outcome if I approach x?
8. What's the most likely outcome, if I don't approach x?
9. The lesson of this matter to me?
10. The lesson of this matter to x?

 

[Leviosa]

Love this spread Saskia. As far as "the lesson of the matter", is that referring to what wisdom will be gained through my outreach or as a result of the relationship in general?

 

[Saskia]

I did think of the lesson derived from the fall-out, not about the reconciliation. But I think everyone can tweak the spread to suit to them!