csdude
There's this girl that I've known casually for awhile, and about 2 weeks ago I struck up a conversation with her online. We chatted quite a bit over the next week, and I kinda got the vibe that she was in to me (which really surprised me, cause she's really out of my league). I flirted a bit, giving her pet names and such, and while she didn't flirt back she didn't shy away, either.
At the beginning of this week she was pretty chatty (I woke up to a few messages from her one day, which was awesome), but by the end of the week... not so much. Which she said was because she was working a lot and tired, which is totally acceptable... but at the same time, I kinda think that if she was in to me then she would take 5 seconds to send a message saying "good night" or whatever. At least, that's how I am.
I hadn't heard from her yesterday so I sent her a message last night, and she replied immediately but she was just getting off work. I replied and suggested we chat later if she's not too tired, or anytime today (Sunday). As of 10:30pm, she hasn't replied to that, so nothing at all today.
She's an early Pisces, if that matters. She's a divorcee with 1 small child, recently starting a second part-time job.
So I did a spread tonight, asking what will be my romantic outcome with [her]? The result I got was a little confusing, so I'm hoping for a little insight from you guys:
The Emperor (focus card for me) almost definitely represents me, especially since I'm about 10 years older than her. But does it imply that she sees me as a solid foundation (important for a divorcee), or a wise older man with no romantic potential? Or that if I pursue her then I'll end up alone?
The 4 of Wands (first clarifier) implies a pretty positive outcome... but then, no Hearts / Cups in the spread makes me worry that it might not be ME that's celebrating.
And the Princess of Swords (second clarifier) could mean that I should go for it... or, it could represent her and mean that the whole thing will just be talking but not really go anywhere.
I think that the Queen represents her, based on previous readings. And I'm not sure about Judgement in this spread at all.
Or, looking at the spread together using Enchanted Tarot, the Emperor is looking a little longingly at the Princess while she's happily reading a message. Maybe the implication is that that's all there is; she really likes getting my messages, but it will never go beyond that? The 4 of Wands doesn't fit in with the picture, though, so I'm not sure.
Thoughts?
At the beginning of this week she was pretty chatty (I woke up to a few messages from her one day, which was awesome), but by the end of the week... not so much. Which she said was because she was working a lot and tired, which is totally acceptable... but at the same time, I kinda think that if she was in to me then she would take 5 seconds to send a message saying "good night" or whatever. At least, that's how I am.
I hadn't heard from her yesterday so I sent her a message last night, and she replied immediately but she was just getting off work. I replied and suggested we chat later if she's not too tired, or anytime today (Sunday). As of 10:30pm, she hasn't replied to that, so nothing at all today.
She's an early Pisces, if that matters. She's a divorcee with 1 small child, recently starting a second part-time job.
So I did a spread tonight, asking what will be my romantic outcome with [her]? The result I got was a little confusing, so I'm hoping for a little insight from you guys:
* Jumper
Judgement
(Judgment, rebirth, inner calling, absolution; time for an important change)
* Spread
4 of Wands
(Celebration, harmony, marriage, home, community; completion, job well done)
Emperor
(Authority, father-figure, structure, solid foundation; sitting alone at the top)
Princess of Swords
(Talkative, curious, mentally restless, energetic; a green light that says "go for it"; some interesting info will surprise you)
* Shadow
Queen of Swords
(Quick thinker, organised, perceptive, independent; lots of info, solitude could be necessary; think with your head, not your heart)
The Emperor (focus card for me) almost definitely represents me, especially since I'm about 10 years older than her. But does it imply that she sees me as a solid foundation (important for a divorcee), or a wise older man with no romantic potential? Or that if I pursue her then I'll end up alone?
The 4 of Wands (first clarifier) implies a pretty positive outcome... but then, no Hearts / Cups in the spread makes me worry that it might not be ME that's celebrating.
And the Princess of Swords (second clarifier) could mean that I should go for it... or, it could represent her and mean that the whole thing will just be talking but not really go anywhere.
I think that the Queen represents her, based on previous readings. And I'm not sure about Judgement in this spread at all.
Or, looking at the spread together using Enchanted Tarot, the Emperor is looking a little longingly at the Princess while she's happily reading a message. Maybe the implication is that that's all there is; she really likes getting my messages, but it will never go beyond that? The 4 of Wands doesn't fit in with the picture, though, so I'm not sure.
Thoughts?