justagirl1
Good evening,
I did a reading regarding a guy and mine's relationship that has died down a bit. He was working a lot and stressed and I took it as being unintrested and basically let the conversation die. We have been seeing each other for well over a year!
Previously when I ask the tarots how he sees me, what he wants I get the lover, 2 of cups, 10 of cups etc and ive been sitting here wondering why he's not talking to me if thats how he feels? But on the other hand, why would he I was really cold when he opened up about being busy and all...
Today after getting death clarified by 10 of cups in a separate reading I finally realised something. It's my attitude that needs changing (death) for the outcome to be a 10 of cups. So I did a reading with 2 sides. One for what would happen "if I contact him" and one "If he contacts me". I made a point of going by my intuition in this reading.
ME: 6 of cups (a childlike happiness - ive never got this card before so I had to look it up. But my thought was happy, delighted. A younger person is offering flowers to an older person, which is "ironic" as he is a lot older than me. Maybe he has also seen me as childish?)
Outcome if I contact him: 2 of cups, 9 of cups + 2 of wands (coming together, union, a "granted wish". I also see 2 cups and forgetting the past + 2 wands planning together)
HIM: 3 of wands (i dont see this as him contacting me - the cards were basically saying hes planning for something else, hes got his back turned)
Outcome if he contacts me: the hanged man, 10 of swords, 5 of cups (basically he wont. It's pretty clear. Maybe he is also hurt)
What does he want me to do? - 8 of wands (contact him, send him a friendly message, make a move)
And if I do that? 10 of cups (happy ending!)
I've always been fearing rejection on top of that I'm so stubborn. but I do like this guy a lot.
Would you also say the cards are telling me it's me who needs to make a move? I thought about it, and like my mum says "whats the worst that can happen? They say no". Which isn't even bad. life goes on.
I did a reading regarding a guy and mine's relationship that has died down a bit. He was working a lot and stressed and I took it as being unintrested and basically let the conversation die. We have been seeing each other for well over a year!
Previously when I ask the tarots how he sees me, what he wants I get the lover, 2 of cups, 10 of cups etc and ive been sitting here wondering why he's not talking to me if thats how he feels? But on the other hand, why would he I was really cold when he opened up about being busy and all...
Today after getting death clarified by 10 of cups in a separate reading I finally realised something. It's my attitude that needs changing (death) for the outcome to be a 10 of cups. So I did a reading with 2 sides. One for what would happen "if I contact him" and one "If he contacts me". I made a point of going by my intuition in this reading.
ME: 6 of cups (a childlike happiness - ive never got this card before so I had to look it up. But my thought was happy, delighted. A younger person is offering flowers to an older person, which is "ironic" as he is a lot older than me. Maybe he has also seen me as childish?)
Outcome if I contact him: 2 of cups, 9 of cups + 2 of wands (coming together, union, a "granted wish". I also see 2 cups and forgetting the past + 2 wands planning together)
HIM: 3 of wands (i dont see this as him contacting me - the cards were basically saying hes planning for something else, hes got his back turned)
Outcome if he contacts me: the hanged man, 10 of swords, 5 of cups (basically he wont. It's pretty clear. Maybe he is also hurt)
What does he want me to do? - 8 of wands (contact him, send him a friendly message, make a move)
And if I do that? 10 of cups (happy ending!)
I've always been fearing rejection on top of that I'm so stubborn. but I do like this guy a lot.
Would you also say the cards are telling me it's me who needs to make a move? I thought about it, and like my mum says "whats the worst that can happen? They say no". Which isn't even bad. life goes on.