synastry and saturn aspects

star-lover

i was reading the other thread where saturn aspects were mentioned as necessary for any significant long term relationship and was curious as to what everyone has between them and their partners

me and my husband of nearly 11 years have (within 2 degree aspects)

his sun semisquare my saturn
his venus square my saturn
his saturn square my sun
his saturn opposite my mars
his saturn quintile my mercury
his saturn trine my ascendant (4 degrees)
his saturn quincunx my mc

and we have a moon square saturn in the composite chart

theres not alot of soft or happier aspects between us to mitigate all that, apart from some moon/neptune energy and a sun sextile moon aspect plus a sprinkle of mercury/jupiter - but of course there IS alot of security, as one would expect with this planet
 

Deszroo

Someone I've been involved with for some time. Its one of those situations where we can either end up hold one another back or wallow in the unproductive yet familiar and comfortable or we can seek to bring balance into each others lives. Our Saturns are in different signs but we have our Saturn on each others S.N. More specifically:

My Mars on their NN/leo/11th....opposing their SN conj my Saturn.

Their NN conjunct my Mars/Asc...oppose my Saturn conj their SN.

thats not the least of it...but surfice it to say we have a lot of synastry connections including vertex, chiron, and but I a lot of im/re/balancing issues-energies.

Deszroo.