lighthousekeeper
Further to my last post, at the advice of Saskia I probed a little deeper into what's going on between me and this guy, whether he'll come back and why it can't work if we like each other
10 cards, RW, no rx
Why is he not willing to commit? King of swords: He has cut himself off from his emotions, he wants to be autonomous. Also he wants to be the one who decides who/when, not the other way around..
What is his priority in life? Ace of swords: To be free of attachments, to be clever about things, to apply intellectual reasoning to situations, to be free
What does he want from a partner? 7 pentacles: He's still figuring that out
Does he want a steady partner? 8 swords: No, he sees that as very restricting, or he wants someone else he can't have
How do I appear to him as a prospective partner? 9 swords: He either thinks I would stress him out or he's stressed and feeling guilty that he's thrown me away
How does he feel towards me? 10 cups: He likes me a lot, he feels like we match. It could also be 'good while it lasted' but 10 as completion
What is the long term potential of our connection? Ace pentacles: There will be a chance to start over again and begin something
What do I need to know? 3 swords: There is someone else that he's occupied with, or he has been hurt by someone, with the Star beside the 3
Near future between us? Star: Daydreams, if he comes back it's a long way away
Long term connection between us? 2 wands: Making a new choice, looking down a new path, being with someone else.. or, reconciling, the journey towards partnership, and working through issues
Because the general question is about what is inhibiting him from being more easy around connecting, I see all the swords as him associating love with pain. Most of the second half of the spread are optimistic.. but the only wands/action is in the long term future, and the pentacles are in the future. So it may come back around, but if anything happens between us it's later
Also interesting to see 7-8-9-10-Ace in a row..
The quint is Chariot, predictor of victory, and 7 is an indicator of both the thing we most want and the unexpected delivery. That's also echoed with the 7 in the only major in the spread, Star, and the 7 of pentacles bringing the earth/physical potential to the 7s. But then again I always get way too optimistic looking for what I want to see so anyone please check me here..
10 cards, RW, no rx
Why is he not willing to commit? King of swords: He has cut himself off from his emotions, he wants to be autonomous. Also he wants to be the one who decides who/when, not the other way around..
What is his priority in life? Ace of swords: To be free of attachments, to be clever about things, to apply intellectual reasoning to situations, to be free
What does he want from a partner? 7 pentacles: He's still figuring that out
Does he want a steady partner? 8 swords: No, he sees that as very restricting, or he wants someone else he can't have
How do I appear to him as a prospective partner? 9 swords: He either thinks I would stress him out or he's stressed and feeling guilty that he's thrown me away
How does he feel towards me? 10 cups: He likes me a lot, he feels like we match. It could also be 'good while it lasted' but 10 as completion
What is the long term potential of our connection? Ace pentacles: There will be a chance to start over again and begin something
What do I need to know? 3 swords: There is someone else that he's occupied with, or he has been hurt by someone, with the Star beside the 3
Near future between us? Star: Daydreams, if he comes back it's a long way away
Long term connection between us? 2 wands: Making a new choice, looking down a new path, being with someone else.. or, reconciling, the journey towards partnership, and working through issues
Because the general question is about what is inhibiting him from being more easy around connecting, I see all the swords as him associating love with pain. Most of the second half of the spread are optimistic.. but the only wands/action is in the long term future, and the pentacles are in the future. So it may come back around, but if anything happens between us it's later
Also interesting to see 7-8-9-10-Ace in a row..
The quint is Chariot, predictor of victory, and 7 is an indicator of both the thing we most want and the unexpected delivery. That's also echoed with the 7 in the only major in the spread, Star, and the 7 of pentacles bringing the earth/physical potential to the 7s. But then again I always get way too optimistic looking for what I want to see so anyone please check me here..