The Standing Stone
You’ve booked the pet sitter for a weekend away because your lover promised to whisk you off to Paris. It’s nearly time to go… you’re sitting on your suitcase to make it shut properly when you get a text message, saying that your lover’s 5 year old son fell off his bike and broke an arm so he can’t go. You have a couple of different options at times like these. Some reach for a bottle of Jack Daniels… some say a prayer…
Personally, I tend to reach for the cards. (Or I will when it does happen – I have yet to be whisked away anywhere really.) It doesn’t have to be about a cancelled holiday, it could be anything: Bad weather making your night out impossible… The baby sitter not turning up… Coming down with an STI when you haven’t cheated but realise he must have (see your GP before consulting the cards!). Or even ‘the biggie’ – a text message break-up… because let’s face it, barring death, nothing is worse than being dumped via a text message. Light a candle, take a deep breath, ask your angels to surround you (reading the serenity prayer out loud is recommended but optional) and lay five cards out according to the image above to help you re-align your shocked and scattered energy, as well as show you any underlying reason for why things happened (or keep happening) this way:
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1. Surprise – this card represents the bad news. It should probably read nasty surprise but such a card wasn’t included in the Deck of 1000 spreads. However, there are blanks so you can make one if you wish!
2. Conscious desire – this represents what you wish would happen
3. What you can’t change - this card shows you the gap between your desire and what actually happened
4. What you can change – this card shows you how you can turn this into a positive experience and bridge the gap between what happened and what you would like to happen in the future
5. Lesson – this shows you what learning you can take from this experience overall
SAMPLE READING:
1. Surprise – The Hierophant: The surprise in this case may well be that this turned out to be just another lesson… one of so many. It can indicate an unwillingness to learn this particular lesson since it’s on repeat.
2. Conscious desire – The King of Cups: This is not the King of Wands, the Fire Element man you are actually dating… this is someone way more caring and empathic. You don’t mind what happened as much as his lack of empathy.
3. What you cannot change – The King of Wands: You cannot change him – it really is as simple as that. He has always put himself first and he will keep on doing so. He has positive traits too, of course but right now his lack of empathy is really bothering you.
4. What you can change – 7 of Pentacles: You can change your idea of timing and that the time is now. Patience is still required if you want this relationship to evolve and become more nurturing.
5. Lesson – 7 of Swords: He is not reliable. Are you? Or are you secretly looking for the King of Cups to appear on the horizon every time he turns his back on you. Could this be the real reason you’re having the repeat lesson?
Hope this helps any of you
Personally, I tend to reach for the cards. (Or I will when it does happen – I have yet to be whisked away anywhere really.) It doesn’t have to be about a cancelled holiday, it could be anything: Bad weather making your night out impossible… The baby sitter not turning up… Coming down with an STI when you haven’t cheated but realise he must have (see your GP before consulting the cards!). Or even ‘the biggie’ – a text message break-up… because let’s face it, barring death, nothing is worse than being dumped via a text message. Light a candle, take a deep breath, ask your angels to surround you (reading the serenity prayer out loud is recommended but optional) and lay five cards out according to the image above to help you re-align your shocked and scattered energy, as well as show you any underlying reason for why things happened (or keep happening) this way:
***********2************
3**************4*****5**
***********1************
1. Surprise – this card represents the bad news. It should probably read nasty surprise but such a card wasn’t included in the Deck of 1000 spreads. However, there are blanks so you can make one if you wish!
2. Conscious desire – this represents what you wish would happen
3. What you can’t change - this card shows you the gap between your desire and what actually happened
4. What you can change – this card shows you how you can turn this into a positive experience and bridge the gap between what happened and what you would like to happen in the future
5. Lesson – this shows you what learning you can take from this experience overall
SAMPLE READING:
1. Surprise – The Hierophant: The surprise in this case may well be that this turned out to be just another lesson… one of so many. It can indicate an unwillingness to learn this particular lesson since it’s on repeat.
2. Conscious desire – The King of Cups: This is not the King of Wands, the Fire Element man you are actually dating… this is someone way more caring and empathic. You don’t mind what happened as much as his lack of empathy.
3. What you cannot change – The King of Wands: You cannot change him – it really is as simple as that. He has always put himself first and he will keep on doing so. He has positive traits too, of course but right now his lack of empathy is really bothering you.
4. What you can change – 7 of Pentacles: You can change your idea of timing and that the time is now. Patience is still required if you want this relationship to evolve and become more nurturing.
5. Lesson – 7 of Swords: He is not reliable. Are you? Or are you secretly looking for the King of Cups to appear on the horizon every time he turns his back on you. Could this be the real reason you’re having the repeat lesson?
Hope this helps any of you
