A (interest) told me yesterday that he was seeing someone (and this is pretty recent). I strongly think that he is in touch with his ex. Since I know him, he is showing some real interest in me, and then he withdraws. I was wondering what would be the best advice for me, concerning this situation?
Finally, back home. Sorry for the wait.
King swords / 5 cups / Chariot
Base: 8 cups
I don't know how you have dealt with A and his push pull up until now but I suspect there is sadness and pain over 'losing' him over and over. This can be very draining and cause great unhappiness to the point where you change who you were from before. These cards don't tell me a lot as to what you could do directly to/with him, but then again it is through dealing with our own self that we see change in the world around us. You need to protect yourself, your inner you. The difference between the person in 5 cups and the person in the Chariot is the shield, the armour, the protection and the attitude. The Chariot is also a very watery and emotional card but the charioteer is singleminded and strategic. The quint is the Hanged man. I feel the advice is to remove yourself from the situation with A, for the time being in order to be able to view the whole thing from a different angle. To gain some perspective. You may see it completely differently, and either way you need the whole picture to better decide what it is that you want. I hope this helps.
Will N (male) get in touch to meet up this weekend??